{"id":8903,"date":"2018-08-01T10:25:19","date_gmt":"2018-08-01T14:25:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intramuralist.com\/?p=8903"},"modified":"2018-08-01T10:44:44","modified_gmt":"2018-08-01T14:44:44","slug":"the-voices-of-others","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/intramuralist.com\/?p=8903","title":{"rendered":"the voices of others"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>When the Intramuralist began nearly 10 years ago, there were some baseline principles we vowed to embrace, such as:<\/p>\n<p><i>All people are created equal.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>Everyone\u2019s voice is valid.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>Everyone deserves respect.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>Disagreement does not equate to disrespect.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>How we handle disagreement matters.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>Listening is a virtue.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>We are each endowed by our Creator.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>None of us have life all figured out (\u2026 especially since we are each endowed by someone other than self\u2026).<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>Focusing on what is good and right and true is best.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>Dialogue leads to both solution and growth.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>Insults, ridicule, and judgment kill both solution and growth.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m certain there are more than the above top ten, but these are principles to which we have consistently attempted to adhere.<\/p>\n<p><i>Have we always done so?<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p>Great question. Probably not.<\/p>\n<p>There have been times I did not listen well. There have been times I played the judge and pointed fingers more than shared well-thought-out perspective. There have been times I, too, unfortunately, have chosen to rant and rave and perhaps even ridicule. There have been times I have thus been hypocritical.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Such is not my desire. But I \u2014 just like you \u2014 am very <i>imperfect.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>This side of heaven \u2014 even though endowed by that Creator with certain unalienable rights \u2014 I will sometimes fail, screw up, and royally fall flat on my face. Such is the nature of being human; <i>is it not?<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p>But I will not quit striving \u2014 striving for what I deeply believe to be good and right and true.<\/p>\n<p>That said, one of the principles embedded in the above, is that you need not always hear from me. Other voices are valid. Other voices are pertinent. We do not all agree on all things, but that doesn\u2019t matter. We must listen to \u2014 and learn from \u2014 one another. We are sharpened by the one who thinks differently than we. That, my friends, is part of the beauty of diversity\u2026 a beauty that too often contemporary culture fails to acknowledge.<\/p>\n<p>Beginning Sunday, therefore \u2014 and continuing for the next 3-4 weeks \u2014 you will hear from some trusted, articulate friends of mine. <b>Yes\u2026 it\u2019s time for our 10th annual Intramuralist <i>Guest Writers Series!<\/i><\/b><i> \u2026 <\/i>an opportunity to hear from multiple individuals from multiple perspectives\u2026 men and women hailing from varied ethnicities and demographics. Please know: the opinions shared may or may not be held equally by me\u2026 but that doesn\u2019t matter.<\/p>\n<p><i>What matters is that we listen well to one another.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>We can learn much if we actually listen to another; hence, this thought-provoking series will feature multiple guest writers sharing unique perspective regarding what\u2019s going on in our world. You will hear about the Supreme Court, civility, some alarming suicide statistics, and far more. Feel free to agree, disagree, engage, and ask questions of them. Simply, as always, be respectful in your response.<\/p>\n<p><i>Respectful\u2026<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Indeed\u2026 may our respect for one another \u2014 imperfect as we each are \u2014 always be intentional and clear. It is both a privilege and joy to be on this journey with you.<\/p>\n<p>Blessings, friends\u2026<\/p>\n<p>AR<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When the Intramuralist began nearly 10 years ago, there were some baseline principles we vowed to embrace, such as: All people are created equal. Everyone\u2019s voice is valid. Everyone deserves respect. Disagreement does not equate to disrespect. How we handle disagreement matters. Listening is a virtue. We are each endowed by our Creator. None of &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"http:\/\/intramuralist.com\/?p=8903\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;the voices of others&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[716],"class_list":["post-8903","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-current-event","tag-guest-writer-series"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8903","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=8903"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"http:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8903\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8911,"href":"http:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8903\/revisions\/8911"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=8903"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=8903"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=8903"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}