{"id":10278,"date":"2020-01-05T08:42:00","date_gmt":"2020-01-05T13:42:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intramuralist.com\/?p=10278"},"modified":"2020-01-05T08:42:07","modified_gmt":"2020-01-05T13:42:07","slug":"how-well-approach-the-new-year","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/?p=10278","title":{"rendered":"how we&#8217;ll approach the new year"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>And here we are, ushering in 2020, somewhere in between a rhetorical bang and a whimper.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We certainly don\u2019t know all that will happen in the year ahead, all the current events that will occur, which we may or may not discuss here. Consider a mere ten events we expect to unfold in the twelve months ahead\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Determination of the Democratic Party\u2019s presidential nominee<\/li><li>The Grand Egyptian Museum\u2019s completion, considered the largest archaeological museum in the world<\/li><li>Major League Baseball\u2019s World Series, already set to begin on Oct. 20th<\/li><li>NASA&#8217;s Mars 2020 mission studying the habitability of Mars<\/li><li>The return of \u201cTop Gun\u201d (and Tom Cruise!) in \u201cTop Gun: Maverick\u201d<\/li><li>The Senate impeachment trial of Pres. Trump<\/li><li>The Summer Olympics \u2014 featuring 339 events in 33 sports held in Toyko, Japan<\/li><li>Super Bowl LIV \u2014 deciding the NFL champion \u2014 to be played on Feb. 2nd in Miami<\/li><li>The United States presidential election \u2014 the 59th quadrennial event<\/li><li>United Kingdom and Gibraltar\u2019s exit from the European Union<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>All this and more is expected in the year ahead. All sorts of issues will evolve. Some we will discuss on the Intramuralist. Some we will not. Some items will be controversial. Some will not.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But in each of these resulting issues \u2014 and in the unexpected scenarios and circumstances, problems and proceedings, miracles and tragedies that arise \u2014 I will promise you this\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We will ardently aim and advocate for:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Respectful dialogue<\/li><li>Welcoming of diverse opinion<\/li><li>Love of all humankind<\/li><li>Generous grace<\/li><li>And the constant pursuit of truth<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>To be blunt, sometimes I will fail in one or more of the above. My apologies \u2014 tis not my intent. However, this side of walking on water, all of us will fail sometime in perfect adherence to what we believe. Failure, my friends, is one of life\u2019s greatest teachers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And so today\u2019s post is really more of a reminder \u2014 a referencing of our mantra, so-to-speak, in what the Intramuralist is set up to do. We are here to encourage, inspire, discuss, debate, and learn from one another. All opinion is welcomed as long as it is said in a way respectful of the one who thinks differently than you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I was reminded of the great value in this as I recently finished Chip and Dan Heath\u2019s \u201cSwitch: How to Change Things When Change Is Hard.\u201d The brothers referenced what social psychology terms the \u201cfundamental attribution error,\u201d something each of us \u2014 arguably too often \u2014 do. We tend to blame a conflict with another squarely on that person, under-emphasizing the situation at hand. Let\u2019s be honest; blaming another is easier.<br>\n<br>\nIf we instead engage, therefore, in respectful dialogue, welcoming diverse opinion \u2014 especially from those who think differently than us \u2014 committed to loving all, offering generous grace while pursuing the truth \u2014 we will grow. And growth for each of us is necessary and good.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So here\u2019s to 2020. Here\u2019s to the events and issues we will discuss.<br>\n<br>\nSome will be hard. For you. For me. For each of us.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>(Just wait for Wednesday.)&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>May we learn from one another.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Respectfully\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>AR<br><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>And here we are, ushering in 2020, somewhere in between a rhetorical bang and a whimper. We certainly don\u2019t know all that will happen in the year ahead, all the current events that will occur, which we may or may not discuss here. Consider a mere ten events we expect to unfold in the twelve &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/?p=10278\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;how we&#8217;ll approach the new year&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10278","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-current-event"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10278","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=10278"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10278\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":10285,"href":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10278\/revisions\/10285"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=10278"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=10278"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=10278"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}