{"id":10843,"date":"2020-07-15T08:04:33","date_gmt":"2020-07-15T12:04:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intramuralist.com\/?p=10843"},"modified":"2020-07-15T08:04:38","modified_gmt":"2020-07-15T12:04:38","slug":"my-truth","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/?p=10843","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;my&#8221; truth"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>It\u2019s a fascinating concept\u2026 sounds good, too\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><em>My truth.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But what if it\u2019s not accurate?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Let\u2019s objectively unpack. First, some definitions\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>my<\/strong> | m\u012b |&nbsp; <em>possessive determiner<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>1 <\/strong>belonging to or associated with the speaker: <em>my name is John<\/em> | <em>my friend<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>2 <\/strong>used in various expressions of surprise: <em>my goodness!<\/em> | <em>oh my!<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>truth<\/strong> | tro\u035eoTH | <em>noun<\/em>&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>the quality or state of being true: <em>he had to accept the truth of her accusation.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>\u2022 <\/strong>that which is true or in accordance with fact or reality: <em>tell me the truth<\/em> | <em>she found out the truth about him<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>\u2022 <\/strong>a fact or belief that is accepted as true: <em>the emergence of scientific truths<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So then we observe, listening to what people think, say, and believe \u2014 such as this prominent news host this week:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u201cMy role as a journalist is to speak from my truth and from my lens and from where I come from, and I don\u2019t think those things are biases. I think those things give me expertise in this particular subject.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>With all due respect, he is not alone. Many believe <em>their<\/em> truth is <strong><em>the<\/em><\/strong> truth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Herein lies the problem\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>By definition,\u201ctruth\u201d fits \u201cin accordance with fact or reality.\u201d One person\u2019s experience does not equate to everyone else\u2019s reality.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The \u201cmy\u201d modifies what comes after it; \u201cmy\u201d modifies \u201ctruth.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But if \u201ctruth\u201d is \u201cfact or reality,\u201d it can\u2019t be modified.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Which makes me wonder\u2026&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Is one of the challenges of current day this notion that seemingly well-intentioned, even intelligent people believe contradicting themselves makes sense?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Truth is not relative. Hence, there is no such thing as \u201cmy truth,\u201d your truth, or anyone else\u2019s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So what if instead of \u201cmy truth,\u201d we acknowledged\u2026<br> <br> <em>\u201cHere is my perspective\u2026\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u201cThis is my experience\u2026\u201d<br>\n<br>\n\u201cMy perspective and experience are valid\u2026\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>With that comes the prudent awareness that individual perspective and experience do not hold for all people.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><em>Why is such a distinction important?<\/em><\/strong> Great question. The challenge when we treat truth as relative \u2014 suggesting individual truths exist \u2014 is that it lures us into believing there\u2019s no validity with any other perspective or experience.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In other words, <em>\u201cIf my truth is fact, why should I pay any attention to you?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>May we honor and learn from varied perspective and experience, recognizing each are still are incapable as qualifying as \u201ctruth.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Respectfully\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>AR<br><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s a fascinating concept\u2026 sounds good, too\u2026 My truth. But what if it\u2019s not accurate? Let\u2019s objectively unpack. First, some definitions\u2026 my | m\u012b |&nbsp; possessive determiner 1 belonging to or associated with the speaker: my name is John | my friend. 2 used in various expressions of surprise: my goodness! | oh my! truth &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/?p=10843\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;&#8220;my&#8221; truth&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10843","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-current-event"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10843","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=10843"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10843\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":10847,"href":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10843\/revisions\/10847"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=10843"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=10843"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=10843"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}