{"id":11175,"date":"2020-11-22T09:30:55","date_gmt":"2020-11-22T14:30:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intramuralist.com\/?p=11175"},"modified":"2020-11-22T09:31:00","modified_gmt":"2020-11-22T14:31:00","slug":"sometimes-im-the-one","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/?p=11175","title":{"rendered":"sometimes I&#8217;m the one"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Sometimes I\u2019m the one who says the wrong thing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes I\u2019m the one who has refused to give generous grace.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes I\u2019m the one who has ranted and raved.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes I\u2019m the one who has ignored the political hypocrisy because I like how that person votes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes I\u2019m the one who has acted as if it was ok to shout the dissenter down.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes I\u2019m the one who has muted or snoozed the other.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes I\u2019m the one who has acted like I know all the facts and the other clearly does not.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes I\u2019m the one who has hung up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes I\u2019m the one who has justified insult.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes I\u2019m the one who has watched only CNN, FOX News, or MSNBC and believed myself to have a comprehensive, accurate perspective.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes I\u2019m the one who has allowed my friends to chastise my other friends on social media.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes I\u2019m the one who has looked down on another.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes I\u2019m the one who has responded with a \u201cgotcha\/mic drop\u201d retort, thereby essentially refusing to converse wisely.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes I\u2019m the one who has made excuses for the unscrupulous extremes who have attached themselves to my preferred party.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes I\u2019m the one who has been unknowingly fooled by the opinion disguised as news.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes I\u2019m the one who has determined the other isn\u2019t worth listening to.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes I\u2019m the one who has forgotten that even a stopped clock is right twice a day.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes I\u2019m the one who has been pompous and rude.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes I\u2019m the one who has rejected giving extended, ongoing thought to the other side.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes I\u2019m the one who thinks another has way more to learn than me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And thus\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes I\u2019m also the one in need of forgiveness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes I\u2019m also the one who needs to say I\u2019m sorry.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes I\u2019m also the one who needs to recognize that loving my neighbor, brother, sister, etc. doesn\u2019t allow for me to be selective.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes I\u2019m also the one who needs to recognize that respectful dialogue doesn\u2019t depend on the subject.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And sometimes \u2014 no, <em>always<\/em> \u2014 I\u2019m also the one who has more to learn\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No doubt each of us are one.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Respectfully\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>AR<br><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes I\u2019m the one who says the wrong thing. 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