An annual, important message\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dear Graduate, <\/p>\n\n\n\n
For everything there is a season, a time for every activity under heaven…<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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A time to be born and a time to die. A time to plant and a time to harvest.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n A time to kill and a time to heal. A time to tear down and a time to build up.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n A time to cry and a time to laugh. A time to grieve and a time to dance.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n A time to scatter stones and a time to gather stones. A time to embrace and a time to turn away.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n A time to search and a time to quit searching. A time to keep and a time to throw away.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n A time to tear and a time to mend. A time to be quiet and a time to speak.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n A time to love and a time to hate. A time for war and a time for peace.<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n Now that you are formally entering adulthood, allow us to address a few more brief truths as you take these next few, albeit humongous steps…<\/p>\n\n\n\n First, there is that time for everything \u2014 every activity under heaven, every season under the sun. The reality is you will not enjoy nor desire each of these times. But one of the quiet truths in life is that how you respond to circumstance is typically more important than the circumstance itself. Such is a key to wisdom. Seek after wisdom. Always.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Remember that you have a choice in how to react; too many forget that. Instead of intentionally weighing the wisdom, they become self-focused or demanding. Resist that. Learn the difference between enjoy and embrace. When the time comes to tear down or turn away, embrace the time; when the time comes to grieve, grieve\u2026 dance, dance. Maybe even dance a lot. But remember than learning from the experience is more important than becoming self-focused and demanding. The wise one learns and grows from each season, even embracing that which is hard.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Second \u2014 and don\u2019t let me shock you \u2014 but contrary to perhaps your long-held belief (or some fictional, parenting mantra)<\/em> \u2014 you cannot be whatever you want to be. I\u2019m sorry; remember… we are wrestling with reality. Similar to the Tooth Fairy, Easter Bunny, and jolly old St. Nick, there are a few things we\u2019ve told you for some reason, that aren\u2019t actually true. <\/p>\n\n\n\n It is true that you cannot be whatever or whoever you want to be. Also true is that you are not entitled to any of those desired positions. However, you can be something better. You can be all that God created you to be. Embrace your gifts. Utilize the individual, unique wiring within you \u2014 the wiring that makes you distinctly and beautifully, uniquely you!<\/em> Don\u2019t compare yourself to another, falling prey to society\u2019s hollow teaching that another person\u2019s wiring or set up is somehow better or worse than your own. Simply embrace your strengths and grow from your own weaknesses. Quit attempting to cover them up. Seek God first; seek his intention for your life. Then be who he created you to be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n And third,<\/em> our brief rapid fire of encouragement… <\/p>\n\n\n\n Love deeply. Offer grace generously. Never view grace and truth as opposites, as each can be applied in full measure. Always. Wash your sheets \u2014 at least before you have company. Don\u2019t be selfish. Be slow to anger. Be fast to forgive. Be humble. Forgive again. And again and again. See the wisdom in forgiveness. Recognize that sometimes intelligence gets in the way. Don\u2019t be bitter; you will be the only one harmed in the long run. Eat healthy. Know when to not. Don\u2019t look out only for your own interests, but take an interest in others, as well. Separate the reds from the whites. Be charitable. Be noble. Save some; spend some; give some away. Don\u2019t be afraid of sorrow. Recognize that you can feel sorrow and joy both at the same time. Turn off the XBOX. Sometimes. Value other people. Be sharpened by their differences. Chew with your mouth closed. Don\u2019t ever think of equality with God as something to be grasped. Listen to the elderly; invest in the young. Bow and curtsy when appropriate. Open the door. Show respect \u2014 in what you say and how you think. Remember that respect does not mean accepting all as equally good and true. Know that all things are not<\/em> equally good and true. Know when to be loud \u2014 when to be silent. Look another in the eye. Put the phone down. Use your napkin. Be discerning. Be aware that just because something feels good, it doesn\u2019t mean it\u2019s wise. Be prayerful. Figure the faith thing out; know that another can\u2019t do it for you. And embrace each and every season shared above… the time to laugh… the time to cry… the time to grieve… and yes, that time to dance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n There is a time for everything. God has made everything beautiful for its own time. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Congrats, grads\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n AR<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" An annual, important message\u2026 Dear Graduate, For everything there is a season, a time for every activity under heaven… A time to be born and a time to die. A time to plant and a time to harvest. A time to kill and a time to heal. A time to tear down and a time … <\/p>\n