{"id":4918,"date":"2015-07-02T07:36:12","date_gmt":"2015-07-02T11:36:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intramuralist.com\/?p=4918"},"modified":"2015-07-02T07:37:46","modified_gmt":"2015-07-02T11:37:46","slug":"yearning-for-connection","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/?p=4918","title":{"rendered":"yearning for connection"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/photo-1428865798880-73444f4cbefc.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-4920\" src=\"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/photo-1428865798880-73444f4cbefc-300x179.jpeg\" alt=\"photo-1428865798880-73444f4cbefc\" width=\"300\" height=\"179\" \/><\/a>Consistent with my daily routine of scanning diverse news sources, yesterday I read an editorial in The Washington Post debating the possibility of VP Joe Biden running for President of the United States. Yes, I find it fascinating\u202614,000 people running for the Rep\u2019s\u2026 one waiting to be coronated by the Dem\u2019s\u2026 and neither scenario currently, totally appealing.<\/p>\n<p>But as the editorial weighed the prospects of a Biden candidacy, I stumbled upon this huge a-ha:<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cIn a lot of ways, Biden would be the true anti-Hillary. He is completely uninhibited, he is impossible to script \u2014 which makes him seem authentic \u2014 and he has a human appeal that everyone can relate to. Clinton, on the other hand, is running a surreal campaign that avoids crowds, media and spontaneity of any kind. She is protecting her lead in the most standard, unimaginative way possible. Compared with Clinton\u2019s robotic, stiff approach, could having a reputation for occasionally saying the wrong thing and hugging too much work to Biden\u2019s advantage in an era where voters want the real thing?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>The Democrats appear to be yearning for an emotional connection with their candidate, which could explain the flurry of excitement surrounding the Bernie Sanders campaign. Sen. Sanders seems to have an outsize appeal, which could be a product of how his outside-the-box approach contrasts with the stale Clinton march. But whatever Bernie can do, can\u2019t Biden do it better? Maybe Sanders\u2019s candidacy has exposed the opening that exists for Biden in the Democratic primary. Maybe this is Biden\u2019s moment.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Friends, this post is not intended to address any aspect of partisan politics \u2014 nor to again aver the Intramuralist\u2019s stated desire for ideas fresher than those hailing from a Clinton or Bush. What fascinated me in the above editorial was this line:<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cThe Democrats appear to be yearning for <strong>an emotional connection<\/strong> with their candidate.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s remove the partisan reference\u2026<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>We<\/strong><\/em> want an emotional connection with our candidate.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>We<\/strong><\/em> want an emotional connection with our President.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>We<\/strong><\/em> want an emotional connection with our celebrities, sports figures, politicians, you-name-it.<\/p>\n<p>My sense is <em>we crave connection.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Years ago I remember laughing when ABC found unique success positioning their \u201cBachelor\/Bachelorette\u201d series as \u201creality TV\u201d [insert big grin here]. I laughed further still at the vocabulary they added to our colloquial conversation.\u2028\u2028..<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><em>\u201cI still feel great about Courtney because when I&#8217;m with her, I feel really connected to her.&#8221;<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>\u201cThanks to everyone for hanging in there with me this season. We totally had a connection.\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>\u201cI truly thought we had a connection, but I never seem to be anyone&#8217;s number one.\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Connection\u2026 connection\u2026 connection. We crave emotional connection.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s why many appreciated Pres. Obama singing \u201cAmazing Grace\u201d last weekend in Charleston; many connected with him emotionally. It\u2019s also why many have not appreciated his leadership on healthcare; he has not cared about emotionally connecting with the majority of people.<br \/>\nIt\u2019s why the people of Cleveland root for LeBron James \u2014 because of the emotional bond they share, as he admirably returned to the city they love. It\u2019s the same we feel with women\u2019s soccer and this year\u2019s national team \u2014 connecting with them \u2014 and their patriotism, as they represent us all.<br \/>\nA Joe Biden candidacy? The Intramuralist isn\u2019t here to weigh the merits of any one candidate\u2019s qualifications; we make no endorsements. But I will say this\u2026 as a man who often puts his foot in his mouth, a man who seemingly knows how to laugh at himself, a man who has made some major mistakes, and a man who knows deep, deep, recent sorrow \u2014 on a totally, nonpartisan level, I feel like we connect.<\/p>\n<p>To me, that\u2019s important\u2026 in reality\u2026 and not reality TV.<\/p>\n<p>Respectfully\u2026<br \/>\nAR<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Consistent with my daily routine of scanning diverse news sources, yesterday I read an editorial in The Washington Post debating the possibility of VP Joe Biden running for President of the United States. Yes, I find it fascinating\u202614,000 people running for the Rep\u2019s\u2026 one waiting to be coronated by the Dem\u2019s\u2026 and neither scenario currently, &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/?p=4918\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;yearning for connection&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[8,10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4918","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-current-issue","category-daily-life"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4918","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4918"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4918\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4925,"href":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4918\/revisions\/4925"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4918"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4918"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4918"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}