{"id":6494,"date":"2016-08-02T06:44:15","date_gmt":"2016-08-02T10:44:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intramuralist.com\/?p=6494"},"modified":"2016-08-02T06:49:22","modified_gmt":"2016-08-02T10:49:22","slug":"counting-the-cost","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/?p=6494","title":{"rendered":"counting the cost"},"content":{"rendered":"

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It was an interesting observation. I was in a florist shop waiting in line to buy flowers for a new mom. At the front of the line was a customer who was eager to place his order. He has his wallet in hand, and from his demeanor, it was obvious that he was ordering flowers for someone special, someone very dear to him. He wanted to send the very best. He was not just sending flowers; he was sending a message.<\/p>\n

With strong affirmation and for all of us to hear, he declared, \u201cI want to order a dozen of your very best red roses!\u201d<\/p>\n

Then with a degree of hesitancy and apparent after thought, and in a less enthusiastic voice, he asked, \u201cAh\u2026 just how much does a dozen roses cost?\u201d<\/p>\n

The clerk replied, \u201cThat will be $60.00.\u201d<\/p>\n

With that information in mind, further deliberation, and a long pause, he said, \u201cWell\u2026ah\u2026how much does a half dozen cost?\u201d<\/p>\n

Again, the clerk replied, \u201cThat would be $35.00.\u201d<\/p>\n

I watched the man shifting from one foot to the other and obviously in thought as he was evaluating the cost before finalizing his order for this special recipient. Then he said, \u201cGee, ya\u2019 know, she really likes carnations\u2026 and they last so much longer\u2026 yes, let\u2019s send her a half dozen carnations instead of the roses.\u201d<\/p>\n

As I observed this scenario I couldn\u2019t help but ask myself some questions. Did he decide that she wasn\u2019t worth that which cost the most? Did he decide that less would reflect his love just as much? Did she really like carnations, or was that just a rationalization to get out of ordering the roses he had originally intended when he came into the shop?<\/p>\n

Life frequently presents us with scenarios which have lessons within them for us who are observing. I thought about how often we have intentions to give the most or what we deem the best initially, and then when we research the cost, we rationalize to see if we can give a little less, do a little less, or maybe substitute something else entirely. Yes, we still want the relationship, the message, and the desired response to our gift from the recipient, but maybe, just maybe, we can get by with giving just a little less. After all, why should cost matter? Isn\u2019t it the thought that really counts? Well, maybe\u2026 but then how important is the relationship, be it physical, emotional, or spiritual? Does what we are willing to invest say something about its value, its importance to us?<\/p>\n

So my question is when is substituting something less for the most a commentary on what we honestly value, on how much we really are willing to invest, be it money, time, or ourselves?<\/p>\n

Hmmmm, I wonder.<\/p>\n

Thanks Intramuralist\u2026you invest from the heart!<\/p>\n

Respectfully\u2026
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