{"id":7026,"date":"2017-01-03T08:49:48","date_gmt":"2017-01-03T13:49:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intramuralist.com\/?p=7026"},"modified":"2017-01-03T08:56:11","modified_gmt":"2017-01-03T13:56:11","slug":"heres-to-moving-forward-in-2017","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/?p=7026","title":{"rendered":"here’s to moving forward in 2017"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"h7roztmgxwe-wojtek-witkowski\"<\/a><\/p>\n

Each year seems marked by its uniqueness\u2026<\/p>\n

\u201941 was the attack on Pearl Harbor, the escalation of WWII and the USA\u2019s involvement\u2026
\n\u201963 was when\u00a0a nation mourned the death of its sitting President, stilled by the poignancy of his young son\u2019s salute\u2026
\n\u201997 saw the deaths of two of history\u2019s most beloved, benevolent contributors in Princess Diana and Mother Teresa\u2026<\/p>\n

It makes me wonder how 2016 will be historically remembered, as there was\u00a0division manifest in far too many arenas. How do we move forward? \u2026 through\u00a0the masses? \u2026 how do we do so wisely?<\/p>\n

Allow me to return to my family\u2019s unique experience a year ago. We found ourselves in the middle of Times Square as the ball and confetti dropped at midnight on New Year\u2019s Eve. We had never done that before \u2014 \u201ca bucket lister,\u201d said one enthusiastic son. And so with an approximate 999,995 others, we did our best packed sardines imitation \u2014 albeit mostly<\/em> without the odor and oil.<\/p>\n

Picture the most crowded place you can imagine \u2014 a stadium, a massive conference room\u2026 people everywhere\u2026 with little room to do anything more than raise arms with your smart phone, in order to capture the next snapshot, chat, whatever. But unlike such typical scenarios, where a crowd of massive size would be aware of varied interests and individual wants, needs, opinions, emotions, etc., we were all focused on the same thing\u2026<\/p>\n

We were all excited about the same thing.<\/p>\n

We were all looking in the same direction \u2014 eyes focused \u2014 waiting and wanting for the big ball to drop.<\/p>\n

Without a doubt, there is something inherently beautiful laced in the meaning accompanying the dropping of that New Year\u2019s ball\u2026<\/p>\n

Instead of focusing on our differences and maximizing what we don\u2019t<\/em> have in common \u2014 noting that in an actual, estimated crowd of one million people, countless significant differences exist \u2014 we shared something greater. Indeed, it was far greater\u2026 so great, in fact, our individual differences did not matter\u2026<\/p>\n

Our individual differences were also not watered-down. They did not have to be ignored or removed in order for the celebration to ensue. We were each excited about a celebration greater than self.<\/p>\n

Hence, after the uniqueness of 2016, I\u2019m wondering if the way forward is to find a way to focus on the same thing. What could that be? What could be that good?<\/em><\/p>\n

I\u2019m reminded of the interaction between my youngest son and an older New Yorker that night. Josh, that incredible kid who has never been disabled by his special needs, said \u2018hello\u2019 to an elderly New Yorker. Note that previous to our trip, we had (sadly)<\/em> cautioned him in regard to taming some of his typically more overt, overly friendly interactions in Manhattan. But after a brief, positive acknowledgement from the gentleman, Josh was encouraged. He meekly continued, \u201cHey… want to be friends?\u201d The man was first taken by surprise; there was a slight pause. And then he lit up with a humongous grin, articulating a hearty, warm Italian response, and said, \u201cYou just made my whole night!\u201d<\/p>\n

Here was a man and my son who from most first glances had little in common. The individual differences were obvious. But they did not matter. Their focus on the same thing brought them great joy \u2014 and helped them navigate through the masses (and sardines)<\/em> in a beautiful, God-honoring way.<\/p>\n

Here\u2019s to the start of 2017, friends\u2026 as we wrestle with our individual differences, may we always do so respectfully.<\/p>\n

Respectfully\u2026
\nAR<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Each year seems marked by its uniqueness\u2026 \u201941 was the attack on Pearl Harbor, the escalation of WWII and the USA\u2019s involvement\u2026 \u201963 was when\u00a0a nation mourned the death of its sitting President, stilled by the poignancy of his young son\u2019s salute\u2026 \u201997 saw the deaths of two of history\u2019s most beloved, benevolent contributors in … <\/p>\n

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