{"id":7137,"date":"2017-02-09T06:25:19","date_gmt":"2017-02-09T11:25:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intramuralist.com\/?p=7137"},"modified":"2017-02-09T06:25:19","modified_gmt":"2017-02-09T11:25:19","slug":"still-makin-me-want-to-shout","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/?p=7137","title":{"rendered":"still makin&#8217; me want to shout"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/ds0zia5gzc4-nina-strehl.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-7138\" src=\"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/ds0zia5gzc4-nina-strehl-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"ds0zia5gzc4-nina-strehl\" width=\"654\" height=\"436\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Perhaps no one has noticed, but respectful dialogue seems to be increasingly nearing endangered species status. We seem to continuously take turns \u2014 albeit not on the Intramuralist <em>(thank God!)<\/em> \u2014 justifying why respect is no longer necessary.<\/p>\n<p>Respectful dialogue is this blog\u2019s stated priority. Regardless of society\u2019s rhetorical digression, we will adhere to a conversation abundant with respect. We will not ignore truth; but we will also not sacrifice grace in the process.<\/p>\n<p>So I wondered\u2026 what do others say about respect?<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cSo much drama off and online&#8230;<\/em><br \/>\n<em>Be kind and respect others.<\/em><br \/>\n<em>Follow the golden rule. Always.<\/em><br \/>\n<em>Don&#8217;t step on others.<\/em><br \/>\n<em>Chase your dreams the right way.<\/em><br \/>\n<em>Keep your head up. <\/em><br \/>\n<em>Then, everything else will take care of itself.\u201d<\/em><br \/>\n\u2015 K.J. Kilton<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cRespect begins with this attitude: \u2018I acknowledge that you are a creature of extreme worth. God has endowed you with certain abilities and emotions. Therefore I respect you as a person. I will not desecrate your worth by making critical remarks about your intellect, your judgment or your logic. I will seek to understand you and grant you the freedom to think differently from the way I think and to experience emotions that I may not experience.\u2019 Respect means that you give the other person the freedom to be an individual.\u201d<\/em> \u2015 Gary Chapman<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cMany people have the confused idea that peace will happen when all the colors in the palette are the same. The actuality of peace is accepting each color\u2019s differences and seeing the beauty each possesses.\u201d<\/em> \u2015 Alaric Hutchinson<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s more\u2026<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cKeep an eye on your responses. Strong responses are about you more than them.\u201d<\/em> \u2015 Auliq Ice<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cMen are respectable only as they respect.\u201d<\/em> \u2014 Ralph Waldo Emerson<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cIn the end, those who demean others only disrespect themselves.\u201d<\/em> \u2015 D.B. Harrop<\/p>\n<p>And a couple more\u2026<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cTo be respected, be respecting.\u201d<\/em> \u2015 Himanshu Arora<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cRespect is love in action.\u201d<\/em> \u2015 Bangambiki Habyarimana<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cThe only true disability is the inability to accept and respect differences.\u201d<\/em> \u2015 Tanya Masse<\/p>\n<p>I heard a gentleman on one of the cable news networks this week discuss the current societal digression. He spoke specifically of the protest-laden, rhetorically-attacking, political climate; his evaluation was not one calling out solely\u00a0the left, right, or anything in between. He was discussing the entire sad state of affairs and the current, clear inability to accept any ideological differences. There exists an incredibly prevalent <em>\u201cI\u2019m-<strong>right<\/strong>-and-there\u2019s-<strong>no-way<\/strong>-I-could-be-wrong-or-off-in-<strong>any<\/strong>-capacity\u201d<\/em> attitude. In other words, there is a concerning, existent lack of humility.<\/p>\n<p>I then found myself sitting still, pondering more, and attempting to digest his stated perspective that \u201cinstead of <em><strong>talking<\/strong> <strong>with<\/strong><\/em> each other, we have started <strong><em>shouting at<\/em><\/strong> each other.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Just for a moment, visualize a person shouting\u2026 ranting, raving.. and loud\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Can any other voice be heard?<\/p>\n<p>Does anyone else feel respected?<\/p>\n<p>Great question&#8230; really great question&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Respectfully\u2026<br \/>\nAR<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Perhaps no one has noticed, but respectful dialogue seems to be increasingly nearing endangered species status. We seem to continuously take turns \u2014 albeit not on the Intramuralist (thank God!) \u2014 justifying why respect is no longer necessary. Respectful dialogue is this blog\u2019s stated priority. Regardless of society\u2019s rhetorical digression, we will adhere to a &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/?p=7137\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;still makin&#8217; me want to shout&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[8,10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7137","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-current-issue","category-daily-life"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7137","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=7137"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7137\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7140,"href":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7137\/revisions\/7140"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=7137"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=7137"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=7137"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}