Let\u2019s talk honestly, rawly about what happened last Wednesday. Let\u2019s talk about the students. Let\u2019s talk about solution.<\/p>\n
First, take a moment to say each of these names out loud. Take note, too, of their ages\u2026<\/p>\n
Alyssa Alhadeff (14), Martin Duque Anguiano (14), Scott Beigel (35), Nicholas Dworet (17), Aaron Feis (37), Jaime Guttenberg (14), Christopher Hixon (49), Luke Hoyer (15), Cara Loughran (14), Gina Montalto (14), Joaquin Oliver (17), Alaina Petty (14), Meadow Pollack (18), Helena Ramsay (17), Alex Schachter (14), Carmen Schentrup (16), and Peter Wang (15).<\/p>\n
We need to know their names, see their faces. We need to make sure we humanize the process and allow ourselves to feel.<\/em> We cannot simply stand back behind a policy; we need to stand most behind our people.<\/p>\n 17 people died Wednesday afternoon. No doubt none expected to lose their life that day. And that could have been any our kids or any of us or any of our loved ones, too; we expect school to be safe. It was not. It\u2019s seemingly, increasingly not.<\/p>\n So what do we do? What\u2019s the solution?<\/p>\n Let me first say I have tremendous respect for those who shout and shame on social media. They are motivated by a deep desire to solve this problem.<\/p>\n I also have tremendous respect for those who cry out and pray, acknowledging we need help in this area. They are motivated by a deep desire to solve this problem.<\/p>\n What concerns me are those who see only one of the above as right, and therefore denigrate all others. \u201cThe \u2018my way or the high way\u2019 approach is rendering all of us incapable of rising up to a challenge that will continue to consume the most innocent and best of us,\u201d<\/em> says one wise friend. We need to address the challenge without attacking or dismissing the approach of another.<\/p>\n I do find comfort that even among the most passionate, shameful expressers, each of us is still motivated by a desire to solve this heartbreaking challenge in our country.<\/p>\n Friends, we can \u2014 and should, I believe \u2014 look at policy changes. So let\u2019s do something that works.<\/em> Let\u2019s take the politics out of it and find what\u2019s effective and works. There is no such thing as \u201cthere is nothing we can do.\u201d<\/p>\n Do we need to limit access to semi-automatic weapons? Then let’s do it. But let’s limit more than just the scary looking ones.<\/p>\n Do we need to limit the lobbyist groups that are influencing policy and our legislators’ votes?<\/p>\n Then let\u2019s do it. But let\u2019s limit far more than the NRA. Let\u2019s limit the AARP, AFL-CIO, and the National Abortion and Reproductive Rights Action League, too. Each of those (and more)<\/em> is affecting the way our legislators vote. As said here previously, the Intramuralist strongly believes that the eased restrictions on lobbyists and special interest groups \u2014 which occurred in the late 1970\u2019s \u2014 is a primary origin of the divisive governance we sadly witness today.<\/p>\n But \u00a0remembering that we are talking honestly and rawly, is there more we need to do? After acknowledging the students and advocating for solution, let\u2019s not ignore the also true realities\u2026<\/p>\n Let me make the last point a little more poignant. We have become increasingly more accepting of selective compassion,<\/em> meaning we are not compassionate toward all \u2014 and we justify<\/em> it.<\/p>\n Follow the perspective of one Florida middle school Teacher of the Year [with the emphasis being mine],\u00a0\u201cUntil we, as a country, are willing to get serious and talk about mental health issues, lack of available care for the mental health issues, lack of discipline in the home, horrendous lack of parental support when the schools are trying to control horrible behavior at school (oh no! Not MY KID. What did YOU do to cause my kid to react that way?), lack of moral values, and yes, I\u2019ll say it \u2013 violent video games that take away all sensitivity to ANY compassion for others\u2019 lives<\/strong> \u2013 as well as reality TV that makes it commonplace for people to constantly scream up in each others\u2019 faces and not value any other person but themselves,<\/strong> we will have a gun problem in school.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n So yes, we need to review policy change. Yes, we need to keep praying. And yes, we need to respect one another in their different approach. Let’s work together toward solution.<\/p>\n That\u2019s love, friends. Let\u2019s make love toward all<\/em> lives \u2014 toward the victims, especially \u2014 be our loudest, collective voice…. for far more than four days after Parkland.<\/p>\n Respectfully\u2026 Let\u2019s talk honestly, rawly about what happened last Wednesday. Let\u2019s talk about the students. Let\u2019s talk about solution. First, take a moment to say each of these names out loud. Take note, too, of their ages\u2026 Alyssa Alhadeff (14), Martin Duque Anguiano (14), Scott Beigel (35), Nicholas Dworet (17), Aaron Feis (37), Jaime Guttenberg (14), … <\/p>\n\n
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