{"id":9787,"date":"2019-06-25T22:07:46","date_gmt":"2019-06-26T02:07:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intramuralist.com\/?p=9787"},"modified":"2019-06-25T22:09:00","modified_gmt":"2019-06-26T02:09:00","slug":"a-selfie-society","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/?p=9787","title":{"rendered":"a selfie society"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>A random dozen, relevant, actual quotes\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u201cSending my selfie to NASA, because I\u2019m a star.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u201cI don\u2019t take selfies all the time. I just do it once and a while everyday.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u201cReal men don\u2019t take selfies.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u201cMaybe she\u2019s born with it. Maybe it\u2019s an Instagram filter.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u201cI remember when Selfies where just called no one else.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u201cA selfie day keeps insecurities away!\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u201cTwerking and selfie have just been added to the dictionary. Future and optimism have now been removed.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u201cThe \u2018I\u2019m doing something fun with a famous tourist landmark\u2019 selfie (aka travelfie)\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u201cThe best selfies are the ones that aren\u2019t.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u201cIf I send you ugly selfies, our friendship is real.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u201cTeenager Post #14606: For every good selfie there are 47 failed ones.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u201cI haven\u2019t taken a selfie for a while, but I am still very cute just to keep you updated.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A \u201cselfie\u201d is a photograph one takes of oneself, typically with a smart phone, and then uploaded to a social media site. Millions of selfies are taken daily.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Just to play with the data a little <em>(and not spending too much time attempting to comprehend who and why someone actually keeps track of said subject),<\/em> note that the average millennial is expected to take 25,700 selfies in his or her lifetime, and now, more people die annually taking selfies than in shark attacks.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s a crazy phenomena \u2014 all these pictures of \u201cme.\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Elsa Godart, a renowned French psychoanalyst and philosopher, in her 2018 book, <em>\u201cI Selfie Therefore I Am\u201d <\/em>\u2014 writes about the inherent contradiction of the selfie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>At the heart of the selfie, Godart explains, is a contradiction. \u201cWhat may look like straight-forward narcissism can often be insecurity and a craving for reassurance: a reassurance that you can only ever get from \u2018likes.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I suppose the key phrase there is \u201cwhat may look like.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u201cWhat may look like\u2026\u201d&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cWhat may look like\u201d does not equate to <em>what actually is.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A selfie is a singular photograph, snapped at a singular moment in time. We see the pics. We form opinions. We judge the narcissism or whatever else we seemingly glean from the solitary photo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But a solitary photo does not make an album.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A single image does not tell an entire story.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Where are we crafting entire narratives based on singular shots?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2026 singular angles?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2026 singular moments in time?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My sense is a selfie society doesn\u2019t always provide an accurate perspective.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Respectfully\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>AR<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A random dozen, relevant, actual quotes\u2026 \u201cSending my selfie to NASA, because I\u2019m a star.\u201d \u201cI don\u2019t take selfies all the time. I just do it once and a while everyday.\u201d \u201cReal men don\u2019t take selfies.\u201d \u201cMaybe she\u2019s born with it. Maybe it\u2019s an Instagram filter.\u201d \u201cI remember when Selfies where just called no one &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/?p=9787\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;a selfie society&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9787","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-current-event"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9787","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=9787"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9787\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9789,"href":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9787\/revisions\/9789"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=9787"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=9787"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intramuralist.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=9787"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}