more than half the people

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Ah, again today there’s a vote — a vote before the vote as to whom will lead us next.

Funny… ok, so maybe not… but I keep hearing all these slants and shared perspectives on the current election cycle. Typically, it primarily equates to criticism of one side only, simultaneously ignoring the glaring discrepancies and questions on the side of the sharer. In fact, I keep hearing comments about people being “angry” or “the year of the angry voter.” I’ve noticed that some talk only about anger on one side of the aisle, yet my common sense stab suggests the anger exists across multiple aisles; otherwise there would likely be no rise to either a Sanders or Trump.

I hear significant dissatisfaction — minimal enthusiasm. How many times have we each viewed a meme, articulating something along the lines of “tell me… is there someone else I can vote for? … please??”

Again, the dissatisfaction is across all aisles.

So I sit here pondering the cause and effect. The effect seems the aforementioned anger and dissatisfaction. The cause, it seems, lies in the behavior of those who’ve gone before this current slate of candidates.

I’m wondering if there is a prevalent feeling that a majority of those who’ve served via elected office in recent decades have mixed up public and self service; they’re so entwined that people can’t seem to discern the difference. We’ve seen far too many seem to rhetorically suggest that they are somehow “God’s gift” to us. Sorry, but none who believe they are “God’s gift” would seem to comprehend the humility necessary in the position God has allowed them to hold.

I wonder if we’ve been worn down by the promises of those who’ve gone before. The elect seem to often void their campaign promises as soon as sworn in… Did they not mean what they said? Did they say what they meant? Are they unable to do what they said? Or did they just make certain, pleasing promises in order to increase the likelihood of election?

There also seems this unfortunate impression in too many of the elect that they don’t truly care about their constituents. Wait. I’ll re-phrase: the elect only care for about half of their constituents.

Since when has it been considered wise policy making to enact sweeping decisions that only half of the people support? Are all the other people simply wrong? Shouldn’t the fact that so many issues are so divided prompt us to find a solution that accounts for both opinions — instead of pushing solely one opinion through no matter the size of the opposition? I must admit, I have gotten a little tired of the rhetorical justification that it’s “the right thing to do” when a significant half exists that disagrees with such specific, sweeping policy. People can disagree; and their opinion matters.

What that says to this semi-humble observer, is that such an elected office holder is only good at listening to half the people. Listening to half does not equate to listening well.

When the elect do not listen well, many — on all sides of the aisles — become angry or dissatisfied. Such gives credence to the obvious lack of enthusiasm for the current, so-called “establishment” candidates… and such gives rise to the atypical candidates, such as either Sanders or Trump.

Funny, but some seem to only understand the popularity of Sanders but not Trump; others seem to only understand the popularity of Trump but not Sanders. I suggest their waves of popularity — however long they last — are born from the same circumstance. Too many who’ve gone before have failed to lead us well.

What does it mean to lead well? To be humble… to be solid morally and ethically… to be honest… and to consistently listen to far more than half the people.

Respectfully…
AR

making me good

8dcf83cbSo my family and I just spent ten days on a trip South. We boated and played in the ocean, saw friends from home and friends who have so beautifully stood the test of time. I am most thankful. We enjoyed the water, sunshine, and all the treats that come from such an extended time away.

One of our favorite activities, renting a boat for a week, was taking the boat out, finding some small uninhabited island, carefully docking the boat, and then exploring the area together. Some of the animals and nature we saw were beautiful and intriguing. En route to one island one day, a trio of dolphins decided to playfully escort us along the way. There’s just something about being that close to those animals for that long that is special and sweet — again putting life in perspective.

Putting life in perspective, no less, ’tis time to go home. A week of leisure is a wonderful thing, but that week of rest, reflection, frolic, and fun prepares me for going home.

There are disciplines embraced at home that for lack of better ways to put it, make me good.

Now don’t let me sound as if I am any better than I am, nor that I can perform or work my way into any good or heavenly entrance. The bottom line is that there exist disciplines embedded into my daily routine that help me be healthy, happy, and hopefully, a positive contribution to the lives of those around me.

Years ago, I read a great book by author John Ortberg. He talked about developing disciplines “for ordinary people,” which sounded like an achievable accomplishment for this semi-humble, striving blogger. But what caught my attention was that such was only the sub-title. First he identified his set of disciplines as “The Life You’ve Always Wanted.”

(Let me be clear… if all it takes is buying some $15 book to get what I’ve always wanted, then that’s a price I’m willing to pay.)

Ortberg eliminates the potentially accompanying stress almost immediately, saying that as with the marathon runner, “the secret to winning the race lies not in trying harder, but in training consistently and training with spiritual disciplines.

The disciplines are neither taskmasters nor an end in themselves. Rather they are exercises that build strength and endurance for the road of growth.”

Who would not want such a road to growth?

Why else would everyone crave those stinkin’ 26.2 stickers on their bumper?

(Ok, ok, so the word “stinkin’” is only included because I’m jealous… and have come no where close to 26.2 yet…)

But it’s not a marathon. It’s not a singular race.

It’s not one race… succeed or fail.

The “life you’ve always wanted,” so-to-speak, as identified by Ortberg, is one paved with humor and humility. It’s encouraging and challenging all at the same time. It’s not always easy… but it is always worthwhile.

It allows us to live a deeper, more spiritual, connecting-with-others life, right where we are.

As Ortberg says, it’s “a life on the edge that fills an ordinary world with new meaning, hope, change, and joy.”

I’ll take that… new meaning, hope, change, and joy… I’ll take zealously pursuing what that actually is.

I’ll take the dolphins’ escort, too… all putting life into perspective.

Respectfully…
AR