I haven’t always had words for what I think. Surprising, perhaps, for this long time current events blogger. But I try not to just react because everyone’s reacting. I try to say what I mean and mean what I say and communicate with authenticity. I don’t want to jump on any bandwagon nor stay off a perceived bandwagon due to any semblance of a sunk cost fallacy. You know the one: this idea that I’ve spent so much time and energy holding on to a mindset or believing a certain way is right that I can’t quit now. We get so passionate… so engrained in what we’re thinking. It can be hard to change… hard to consider other perspective… hard to learn and grow and see areas where we may not be so wise.
What is it that allows us to learn and grow and see those areas where we may not be so wise?
Areas that need changing or refining — areas of which we may be unaware?
What do we need to enable us to pause as opposed to just react? Or to not simply jump (or refuse to jump) on a bandwagon?
How about for simply wise reactions? Discernment?
Friends, there is one concept all comes back to time and time again. There is one thing that answers all of the above.
Allow us to first identify what it means…
- Having a modest view of your own importance
- Recognizing your limitations
- Valuing others above yourself
- Valuing others’ perspective
- Being free from arrogance and pride while maintaining quiet confidence
- Understanding your strengths and weaknesses without feeling superior
- Being receptive to new ideas and feedback
- Having inner strength and self-assurance without constantly needing to prove yourself
- Listening more than talking
- Giving credit to others
- Admitting mistakes
- Making fun of yourself
- Being grateful and compassionate
- Serving others without self-seeking
- Thinking of yourself less
- Accurately evaluating your accomplishments
- Being willing to submit to God’s leading and learn from him
- Reducing defensiveness
- Fostering personal growth and connection
- Remaining teachable, knowing that you will never have all the answers
And also what it does not mean…
- Meekness or weakness
- Thinking less of yourself
- Denying reality
- Bragging
- Being reserved or unopinionated
What it is, friends, is humility. It’s why I struggle with being a full fan of any politician or party — often a star or celebrity, too. I simply see too little humility.
It’s not that this blogger is always so humble. Of course not. To be human is to be imperfect.
But to be human is also a call to grow, to pursue what’s wisest and best; hence, my prayer is that humility would be an active pursuit for us all.
Respectfully…
AR
