the n-word

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There’s a significant debate raging across the country.  Granted, the Intramuralist is only a bystander — not a partaker — as one of the lessons learned these past 5+ insightful years of blogging, is that we don’t have to insert ourselves within the debate trenches of all issues.  Some may have wiser perspectives not so much due to passion, but more so based on the stance they share, a stance perhaps closer in actual proximity.

Prompted by the National Football League, within African-American circles, the debate surrounds the use of the word, “nigger” (from here on referred to as the “N-word”).  The NFL is is expected to enact a rule at their March owners meeting that would penalize players 15 yards if they use the N-word on the field.

Is use of the N-word — and each of its colloquial derivatives — ever appropriate?

Allow me to quote some with a stance closer in actual proximity…

“We want this word to be policed from the parking lot to the equipment room to the locker room.  Secretaries, PR people, whoever, we want it eliminated completely and want it policed everywhere,” says John Wooten, the head of the Fritz Pollard Alliance, which monitors diversity in the NFL.

Richard Sherman, star of the Super Bowl winning Seattle Seahawks feels differently.  “It’s an atrocious idea.  It’s almost racist to me.  It’s weird they’re targeting one specific word.  Why wouldn’t all curse words be banned then?”  

A similar stance is echoed by Sherman’s teammate, Doug Baldwin:  “I think it’s absurd… they’re trying to do this with good intentions.  Maybe.  But, if you look at it, the only people who say the N-word on the football field are African-Americans.  Whether whoever wants to agree with it or not, we have turned it kind of into a term of endearment.”

Let me add a final word from Hall of Famer Art Shell:  “That is the most vile word.  It was created to make a certain group of people feel like they were less than human.  How does that word become a term of endearment?’’

Note that Wooten, Sherman, Baldwin, and Shell are each black, and yet, they disagree.  The African-American community disagrees on whether or not use of the N-word — and each of its colloquial derivatives — is ever appropriate.

Their challenge is obvious; it matters who says the word.  While once a term intended as an ethnic slur, the N-word’s meaning has evolved via the numbing achieved through rap, hip hop, and popular comedic routines such as Chris Rock’s infamous “Niggas vs. Black People.”  In other words, the N-word doesn’t possess the same sting… that is, as long as it’s said from one African-American to another.

There seems some generational aspect, affecting differently those who were once insulted as opposed to those who have never been the recipient of the insult.  There seems also some traditional vs. progressive component.  There exists passionate, definite disagreement from many with a close-in-proximity stance.

The underlying predicament is that the problem is not the use of the word, but rather, the intent of the use.  And once we begin the subjective assessment of intent, we will frequently err in the evaluation.  Like it or not, passionate or not, well-intentioned or not, subjective intent cannot be accurately, always measured.

Hence, in one more realm of society we must ask ourselves… if we cannot fully alleviate a problem, must we eliminate all that potentially contributes to the problem?

Great question.  An even better debate.

Respectfully,

AR

this side of war

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I must confess:  I only know what it feels like on this side of war.  I’ve never been in the middle of a military conflict, where the sights and sounds cause me to shudder on a daily, hourly basis… where my external and internal peace is threatened by a fight seemingly so bigger than me.  “Why can’t we all get along?” many must mutter in their disgust.

But people don’t all get along.  They don’t.  And unfortunately, we, at times have encouraged the not getting along.  How many times have we been disrespectful in our words, diminishing the opinion of another?  How many times have we been judgmental — not judging in the sense of wise discernment, but rather, passing judgment on opinions, as to which one is to be preferred as the more correct?  We do that all the time.  Our leaders do that all the time.  They look down on others every time they denigrate or refuse to debate.

That’s been happening in recent weeks, for example, regarding climate change.  Many are refusing to discuss.  Stop it.  I get that many scientists believe man’s actions are directly responsible for the planet’s perceived warming.  But why must the debate be extinguished?  Note what happened with Charles Krauthammer, a well respected conservative journalist.  He prepared a piece for the Washington Post in which he challenged the premise that the science on climate change is settled.  Environmental activists petitioned the Post not to publish Krauthammer’s column.

Let the debate proceed.  Let the people talk.  If a person’s perspective is good and true and right, it will persevere.  If the only way a perspective can persist is by eliminating diverse opinion, then the perspective is not rooted in wisdom.  Allow the people to talk.  Hear them.  When we don’t allow people to talk, when we don’t listen to them, when we shut them (and their opinions) down, we move eerily closer to the other side of war.

The world is a volatile place.  Look around us.  Conflict spans the globe.  From Afghanistan to Syria to Venezuela, to the Middle East and now the Ukraine.  This is scary, friends.

Ukraine is a country of approximately 45 million citizens, situated between Europe and Russia.  The citizens are divided as to which of the two they identify with more.  Ukraine was actually part of the Soviet Union until 1991, when they declared their independence, with 90% of Ukrainians voting affirmatively.  As with any new nation, economic, social, and political struggles ensued.

In the past decade, some of their leadership embraced more West-leaning, European policies.  Russia — and specifically, Pres. Vladimir Putin — seemed wanting to punish Ukraine for their newfound Western affinity.  Putin cut the flow of gas to the country in 2006 and 2009.  In November of last year, the Ukrainian Prime Minister embraced more Russian policy.  Large numbers of people felt the government was no longer listening to them.  Hence began an initially peaceful, public protest.  But the protest turned violent when clashing with law enforcement.  The Ukrainian government then passed a series of laws that essentially banned all public protest.  And with the cameras rolling from the recent adjacent, Olympic Russian slopes, the protest has significantly escalated.  The Russian military has moved into Ukraine, attempting to regain control.

The world is in a tough place.  There seems little we can do, this side of war.  It’s not an enviable position for Pres. Obama or for any president for that matter.  What president desires war?  (… geepers…)  While there is certainly a time for peace and a time for war and a time for every season under the sun, no wise president earnestly desires engaging in military combat (… the only persons I know who earnestly engage are teenage boys playing the latest “Call of Duty” game).

Hence, keep watching.  Keep praying.  And be thankful to be on this side of war, where our peace is not threatened… and we are still, hopefully heard.

Respectfully,

AR

overreaction

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We are a nation of reactors.  No, I take that back.  We are a nation of over-reactors.

One person misuses something, so the something must be put out of use.  Another person says something awful, so we all must omit the word.  Still one more misuses some sort of liberty, so the government then feels the need to legislate the entire liberty.  Why must so many liberties be legislated?  Why does the government feel a need to restrict and control?  Are we not capable of deciding for ourselves?  Do we each not have the opportunity to be convicted by the same spirit of truth?  We continue to overreact…

 

In the ’20’s people drank too much, so we outlawed alcohol.

In the ’40’s Japan attacked us, so we interned the Japanese.

Still today…

A person utilizes patriotic symbols for slander, so a court bars wearing the American flag to school.

Another says he’s offended by his peer’s mention of Jesus, so all public prayer is banned.

At an Idaho high school, the cheers for some kids were more than others and some of the cheers were rude, so the high school prohibited cheering.  (I’m not kidding.)

 

A person is offended, so we must erase any source of the offense.

A person is rude, so we must eradicate the source of the rudeness.

A person responds to a situation foolishly, so we must diminish any possibility of the situation occurring again.

Yes, we are a nation of over-reactors.

 

Like many of you, I watched closely as the events in Arizona unfolded last week.  We watched them wrestle with Arizona S.B. 1062.

 

This was hard.  Cycling through emotional, rhetorical circles, on all sides of the issue, people became understandably passionate.  And instead of debating any actual wisdom or waste in the legislation, the discussion evolved into a debate of “religious freedom” vs. “gay rights.”  Freedom vs. Discrimination…. a “lose/lose situation,” if you ask me.  Aspects of each of those perspectives seemed true; other aspects were not.  The hype on both sides became bigger than the bill itself, skewing public perspective.

 

Arizona S.B. 1062 amended an existing state law, giving individuals and/or legal entities an exemption from any state law if it substantially burdened their exercise of religion.  I’m not quite sure why some felt such a law was necessary.  The First Amendment gives each of us the right to the free exercise of religion.

My sense is such was an over-reaction to situations that manifested themselves in Colorado and Oregon last year, where a judge in each state ordered a respective bakery to provide their services for a gay wedding, even though each baker was uncomfortable being a part of a ceremony which they believed was inappropriate due to their faith.  In a capitalist democracy, business entities have the right to choose with whom they will work.  Such happens daily, routinely, and without offense.  With multiple other bakeries available — bakers who would welcome and appreciate participating in any special ceremony — I also believe the judge and plaintiff over-reacted.  I don’t mean to be disrespectful, friends.  I simply believe we need to respect and honor all people — from those who wish to marry and those who wish not to partake.  We each have the opportunity to be convicted by the same spirit of truth.

Amid then the backdrop of massive, polarized publicity, late last week Arizona Gov. Jan Brewer vetoed the controversial law.  From the Intramuralist’s perspective, her decision was appropriate.

I wonder who will say what next, though.  Someone.  Somewhere… as we are a nation of over-reactors.

 

Respectfully,

AR