now

While there certainly exists “a time for everything,” now is not the time for…

 

Blame.

Finger pointing.

Any “I-told-you-so’s.”

Declarations of winning.

Accusations of losing.

Arrogance.

Loquacious boasts.

Rhetoric.

Disrespect.

Nor any pats on the back.

 

While many will cast verbal stones at who’s responsible, our government experienced a partial shut down due to one primary bottom line:  our fiscal house is out of order.  We are spending too much money, too fast, with minimally restricted borrowing… AND… we have no specific, measurable plan to pay it back.  As said here amid multiple posts — just like any financial entity, such an approach is unsustainable.

 

Hence, while there exists that time for everything, now is the time for…

 

Courageous leadership.

Courage to tackle the politically unpopular.

Courage to consider specific plans to pay foreign countries back.

Courage to change the federal programs that continue to run at an increased loss.

Courage to address the meaning of “entitlement.”

 

What are the people entitled to?  Who and how shall such be paid for?  Those questions must be asked and answered — and answered free from the rhetoric and disrespect we’ve witnessed these last 3 weeks especially from the legislative and executive branch.

 

Let me add one more idea as to what, also, this is not the time for…

 

Politicians and pundits often pursue policy initiatives based on when they feel they have the strongest “political capital,” meaning they have more leverage and public popularity which could potentially propel into law policy that would otherwise be more challenging to enact.  (FYI:  The Affordable Care Act is an excellent study in political capital utilization.)  If our leaders are going to lead courageously — and not politically — they will pursue what’s most important now; they will not pursue other agenda items first.

 

In the opinion of this semi-humble blogger, what’s most important is getting our federal fiscal house in order.  Now.

 

Respectfully,

AR

groups

As my teenagers consistently calculate their oh-so-active weekend social schedule, there exists constant talk of, with, and about the “group.”

 

The “group.”  What’s the “group” going to do?  Where are they?  What’s the “group” think?  Text the “group.”  What do they say?

 

For months I’ve witnessed this phenomena unfold.  The evolution and application never quite donned on me… until well, now…

 

The “group” plans everything.  The “group” is in control.  It’s not especially democratic nor does the majority always rule.  It would seem instead that often the loudest voices in the “group” make the decision; sometimes there are several who are simply silent, but who still seemingly, at least, go along with the “group.”

 

It’s not, however, just for the big dance.  The “group” plans pretty much everything… what are we doing this weekend?  Where are we going?  Whose house will we stay at?  What do we want to eat?  How do we feel about that?

 

And membership, well, it’s a bit exclusive.

 

I remember when a new gal appeared, with nothing less than a trepidatious tiptoe, obviously desiring to join them.  “Not so fast,” seemed the initially unspoken claim.  Soon after, however, came, “Well, she can join us, but she’s not a member of the ‘group.’”  [Yes, an actual quote.]  Membership is a privilege.

 

I’ve decided that once again our teens have watched us adults a little too well… witnessing how we behave, taking both conscious and subconscious note, and then emulating our habits in ways which first adopt and then magnify both the good and the bad.

 

For adults, too, we have our “groups”… “groups” in which the identity of the “group” often becomes priority number one…  when the fight for preservation of the “group” trumps what is wisest and best…

 

… we fight for our groups based on team… for Cowboys or Patriots…

… we fight for our groups based on race… for black or Hispanic…

… we fight for our groups based on politics… for Democrats or Republicans…

… we fight for our groups based on profession… gender… demographics… religion… education… based on a singular commonality or focus.  And that singular focus often paves the path for a significant blindside, as when we fight only for our “group,” we tend to lose sight of the bigger, wiser picture…

 

When we fight only for our sports “group,” we no longer can appreciate the remarkable talent on display when Tom Brady throws that perfect, last second pass…

 

When we fight only for our ethnic “group,” we no longer see that when we put one race first, we’re engaging in the same behavior of which we are critical…

 

And when we fight only for our political “group,” we no longer recognize that spending on our party initiatives can blind us to the perils of unsustainable, deficit spending.

 

When we fight only for our “groups,” it seems we act more like our teens.

 

Respectfully,

AR

winning

(FYI:  This is not a sports post.  I promise.)

 

In an epic shootout, neither team seemed able to miss.  Each was continuously on the offensive.  They would sling the ball down the field, seemingly with ease, with previous rumors of solid defense having eerily dissipated as the game continued to unfold.  Fans in the stands, proudly donned their colors, cheering loudly and only for the team they’ve become devoted to via passion and habit…  habit and passion.  Yes, the fans have been rooting for their team for so long, so loyally, so blindly, that it did not matter the epic effort both teams were putting forth.  It did not matter the significance of the moment nor any semblance of ethical play.  The reality is that the play of the other team did not matter regardless of how historic or unprecedented.

 

It also did not matter what the other team said — before or after the game.  They are, after all, the other team.  The other team always talks trash… right??  Or so we perceive.

 

The bottom line is that the fans and the team only want one thing.  They want to win.

 

Our culture’s prioritization of winning unfortunately often allows foolishness to fall under the guise of something it’s not.  We want to win.  And so we quit listening and considering and offering one another the respect each man deserves in order to form that more perfect union.  As opposed to looking for the best, most effective solution, we instead focus on winning.

 

Friends, regardless of how often the President and congressional Democrats and Republicans examine their internal polling data, no one is winning the current government shut down.  Regardless of the cyber space status updates by the fans in the stands, no one is winning.  In fact this game is not about winning.

 

There is a problem that needs to be solved more than the scoring of any political points.  The problem with the current shut down and debt ceiling debate is that Democrat and Republican congressmen and presidents have kicked the budgetary can down the road for far too long.  They have each utilized a politically expedient approach to fund their party initiatives instead of responsibly fund the federal government.

 

Let’s face it… our elect have been arguing (and yes, the so-called mature are arguing) over a “C.R.,” a “continuing resolution.”  Continuing resolutions are only necessary when no budget exists.  No federal budget has existed for the last 5 years.  Sen. Majority Leader Harry Reid (D-NV) has even said there’s “no need” to have one.  Every financial entity, my friends — from our minute households to major corporations — operates on some kind of budget.  Our federal government has avoided crafting and passing a budget for 5 years.

 

Budgets let us know the specifics of how much we’re spending and what we’re spending our money on.  They provide a framework for fiscal accountability, financial prudence, and future planning; they thus allow us to ensure entitlement spending doesn’t exponentially — and unsustainably — expand.  Without a budget, there is little to no accountability, prudence, and planning.

 

Hence, the bottom line of the current issue is not about Obamacare nor about the Republicans or Democrats holding anything “hostage” (geepers).  The bottom line is that the stalemate exists because our elect continue to kick the fiscal can down the road and neglect dealing with an unsustainable pattern of deficit spending.  CR’s are not budgets; they are only provisions for continued spending.  The debate over more unsustainable spending — without accountability, prudence, and planning — is the bottom line of the current shut down.

 

Back to the epic shootout… I was actually thinking of Sunday’s Broncos-Cowboys game, the 4th highest scoring game in the history of the NFL.  Each team was playing to win…  unfortunately, for far too many of us, just like them, just like the elect, winning is often more important than recognizing the significance of the moment and any semblance of ethical play.

 

Respectfully,

AR

spreading strife

Hate.  That’s a hard concept for me.  Truthfully, I think it’s a hard concept for most of us.  We find things that make us mad, things that annoy us, things that drive us crazy, and then we often justify hate.  I’ll quote my kids… “I hate spiders, English… and pickles.”  Yeah, we don’t quite have an accurate concept of hate.

 

But there’s something about the current Washington scenario that drives us crazy.  All these supposedly smart people… the President… Congress… regardless of party…  And they say all these disrespectful things to one another…

 

… “taking hostage,” “gun to the head,” “ransom,” “blackmail,” “arsonists,” oh, my…

 

I hate that.

 

I hate the hypocrisy.

 

It wasn’t that long ago that our country mourned the tragedy in Tucson…

 

Pres. Obama seemed so wise…  “At a time when our discourse has become so sharply polarized, at a time when we are far too eager to lay the blame for all that ails the world at the feet of those who think differently than we do, it’s important for us to pause for a moment and make sure that we are talking with each other in a way that heals, not a way that wounds.”

 

Talking to each other in a way that heals…

 

All that seems gone now.  It seems unimportant.  That hurts me.  Do I hate it?

 

As I wrestle with this concept of hate — noting that I hate hypocrisy — part of me wonders what’s actually appropriate to hate.

 

Deep within the historical scriptures, we find the following:

 

There are six things which the Lord hates,
Yes, seven which are an abomination to Him:

Haughty eyes, a lying tongue,
And hands that shed innocent blood, 

A heart that devises wicked plans,
Feet that run rapidly to evil,

A false witness who utters lies,
And one who spreads strife among brothers.

 

So I see the following…

 

Arrogance.  Lies.  The killing of the innocent.

A heart that plots wicked. Running to evil.  Exaggeration about those lies.

 

And one who spreads strife among the brothers.

 

I think that’s what I hate so much about the current government shut down.  I hate that we have persons amongst both parties — the President and Congress — who are actively spreading strife.  Smart as they may be, they encourage dissension and disagreement, as they work first to win people to their side, and only then to solve the situation.

 

I hate this.

 

For the record, I also hate pickles.

 

Respectfully,

AR

the same team

“I have a serious concern to bring up with you, my friends… I’ll put it as urgently as I can:  you must get along with each other.  You must learn to be considerate of one another, cultivating a life in common.

 

I bring this up because some brought a most disturbing report to my attention — that you’re fighting among yourselves!  I’ll tell you exactly what I was told:  you’re all picking sides!”

 

For the first time since the leadership of Ronald Reagan, the President and Congress — led by 2 separate parties — are united.  I know that may surprise you.  The government is shut down, but they’re united.  They actually wholeheartedly agree on something.  They agree that the other party is totally to blame.

 

Yep, it’s totally the other party’s fault.  And by reading several cyberspace posts, it also appears many of us have been seduced into the same line of thinking…  One party is all right.  One party is all wrong.  How stupid can the supporters of that other party be?

 

The Intramuralist believes that this process is not good and not pure and not right.  And since both parties are fully involved in the process, I hold them both responsible.  Perhaps you favor one party over another.  But recognize that both have contributed to this process… perhaps by current tactics… perhaps by previous budget approaches… perhaps by lack of them.  Both parties have sufficiently contributed to the now.

 

“I’ll put it as urgently as I can:  you must get along with each other.”

 

My sense is that one of our greatest challenges as a nation is that we are awful at appreciating different opinion.  We fail to recognize that varied opinion has the potential to sharpen; varied opinion can ironically solidify what’s true.  And yet, we’re bad at both allowing and appreciating it.  Congress is bad at it.  Pres. Obama is bad at it.  Pundits and politicians and people on TV are bad at it.  Arguably worse, we are bad at it. Instead of allowing dissenting dialogue, learning to be considerate of one another, recognizing we’re on the same team and thus cultivating a life in common together in this country, we work instead to squelch.  Hence, we don’t negotiate… hence, we keep saying the same thing over and over… hence, we keep saying the same thing louder… hence, we play victim… hence, we become overly dramatic… hence, we trot out in front of the cameras… hence, we quit meeting face-to-face… hence, we work more to rally the masses than to solve the situation.

 

For smart people, we are not always wise.

 

Wise people on the same team do not pick sides.  We are not a nation of Republicans and Democrats.  We are not any 99 and 1% nor 37 and 63; we are not separate percentages.  We are not the rich and poor, the black and white, the majority and minority, nor the educated and uneducated.  We are not the Catholics and the Protestants nor the atheists and the Jews.  We are also not even Patriots or Saints.  We are Americans.  We are cultivating a life in common.  We live here together.  We’re on the same team.  Hence, we must learn to allow, appreciate, and grow from dissenting opinion — as opposed to squelch it.

 

So as for the current shut down, here’s the Intramuralist quick fix:

 

  1. Stop payment of congressmen’s and the President’s pay.
  2. Get the biased media out of it.
  3. Meet with dissenters face-to-face with the intent to listen better — not simply restate own opinion.
  4. Compromise.  (You ask where can we compromise?  At the very least, in this layman’s opinion, we can require all members of the executive and legislative branches to abide by the same healthcare rules they are requiring of the rest of us.)  And…
  5. Be humble and quit saying and thinking that the other party is entirely wrong.

 

Such an approach may not quickly solve the shut down, but it would be a good start… especially for people who’ve forgotten which team they’re on.  That would be the same.

 

Respectfully,

AR

the games we play

Once again there was a full weekend slate of games, with each earnestly attempting to win.  The challenge is that such an account could easily depict either the National Football League or the President and Congress.  At least in the NFL, a struggling team takes more responsibility for the situation they’re in.  The President and Congress — regardless of party — spend more time blaming the situation on the other than they do in solving the problem.  They spend too much time in front of the cameras.  Too much time rallying the troops.  Too much time playing games!  They play political games.

 

Unfortunately, we, the public, too often camp in front of biased, un-objective “news” sources, allowing them to rhetorically seduce us, as we join in the reindeer games.

 

Geepers.  With all due respect (and “due” seems temptingly relative at the moment), the President and Congress need to halt the insults, turn away the cameras, roll up their sleeves, and learn to work together.  If we can negotiate with Syria, we can negotiate with senators and representatives.  I don’t care if their offensive lines are depleted.  I want our leaders of both parties to realize this is not a game.

 

As of midnight last night, a Republican-led House and a Democrat-led Senate and a Democrat-led White House hadn’t passed and enacted a law allowing the federal government to spend more money.  Constitutionally, if Congress doesn’t pass a law to spend money, the government isn’t allowed to spend it.  Hence, government is required to “shut down,” thereby no longer funding “non-essential” functions or personnel.

 

At this time, 3 observations in particular exist from the Intramuralist’s perspective…

 

One, hypocrisy is rampant in this situation.

 

As pointed out in Sunday’s post, how parties feel about spending more or less is often directly tied to their majority or minority position.  See Pres. Obama’s quotes as a president and senator; they are strikingly different.  The hypocrisy is central to each party’s game-playing.

 

Two, government shut downs have happened 17 times since 1976…

 

From a Democrat-led House and a Democrat-led Senate under Republican President Gerald Ford… to a Democrat-led House and a Democrat-led Senate under Democrat President Jimmy Carter (5 times)… to a Democrat-led House and a Republican-led Senate under Republican President Ronald Reagan (7 times)… to a Democrat-led House and a Democrat-led Senate also under Reagan… to a Democrat-led House and a Democrat-led Senate under Republican President George H.W. Bush… to a Republican-led House and a Republican-led Senate under Democrat President Bill Clinton (2 times)

 

(Did I mention that hypocrisy was rampant?)

 

And finally, three, there’s a quick way to solve this shutdown…

 

Remember that only “non-essentials” go unfunded during a shut down; however, all lawmakers — including the President, representatives, and senators — continue to be paid.  Let’s withhold their paychecks.  Let’s refrain from funding them if they cannot or refuse to compromise and forgo the cameras.  Let’s watch then if they still engage in such a dysfunctional, political game.

 

Allow me to briefly recall a childhood memory…  My brothers will tell you that I used to consistently cheat when playing “Monopoly.”  I wasn’t very good at it — nor did I have the patience to play it well — so I would quietly and yes, oh-so deviously steal money from the bank when my older brother turned his head away.  Granted, my brothers will also gleefully add that I still couldn’t manage to win.  It wasn’t fun.  I had to steal to play.   At least when I engaged in disrespectful, hypocritical activity, I realized it was a game.

 

Respectfully,

AR