law of the land

photo-1431352905070-2ec849b49349Sometimes I’m quiet. Sometimes being quiet is good. Sometimes sitting back, taking time to reflect upon more angles of an issue instead of instantaneously reacting is a wise and wonderful thing. As mentioned multiple times, there is no issue the Intramuralist is unwilling to discuss. Sometimes, however, we will wait for the right time. Let’s discuss Kim Davis.

Actually, no. Let’s not discuss Kim Davis — the county clerk from Kentucky who refused to issue same-sex marriage licenses and instead went to jail. Let’s not make it about the person — the individual who had her so-called 15 minutes of fame; let’s focus on the issue. Way too many people made it about the individual… and truthfully, that bothered me a bit…

I was bothered by those who made Davis into some sort of profound heroine… “Finally, a person who’s had enough and not going to take it anymore!”… a person who’s finally standing up to an over-reaching government. I wasn’t too keen on those who seemed to utilize standing with her as a personal, political opportunity…

I was also bothered by those who portrayed Davis as some sort of ignorant imbecile… those who justified the mocking and vilification — mocking her hair, her past, her physical appearance. I was bothered by the many who mocked her who often preach compassion and tolerance — but then, justified totally no compassion directed toward Davis… no tolerance either…

Same-sex marriages are the current law of this land; it is the law in Kentucky. We can like it, love it, or want no more of it. We can also change it, if desired. We can enthusiastically agree with the summer Supreme Court decision — or we can vehemently disagree with the court’s opinion that the Constitution provides any right to marry. We can be emphatically joyous that five black-robed justices decided the law of the land; we can also be disturbed that a mere five justices determined that law. We can be either. Good people are either. It is still the law of the land.

As a human resource professional, I have long hired persons to do their job. If they don’t do their job — or can’t do their job — then the reality is that the person should have another job; they can resign, be let go, or serve in another capacity. That is not heartless nor cruel nor lacking any compassion. I simply believe that it is the employer who decides what the job is — not the employee. Public or private, profit or non-profit, too many believe they can be the deciders of what they will and will not do. They ignore aspects of the job for which they were hired, elected, or assigned.

That said, 

I deeply admire persons whose faith affects their entire being — whose behavior is so obviously prompted by their authentic belief in the one, true, amazing, almighty God. There is just something within that depth of faith that is admirable, contagious, and good.

I also believe it’s true that religious freedom is a serious issue in this country. I think we need to find a way to address it absent of cruelty and hypocrisy. Let’s face it: this is tough for us; it’s tough for our entire country. We tend to support or oppose religious freedom depending on how it fits the angle and issue we’re coming from at that time…

Can we force the baker to bake? … the photographer to take? … how about the florist? Have you heard, too, about the current case before the court in which our federal government is actually suing an Illinois trucking company that requires Islamic truck drivers to deliver alcohol? The feds are fighting for their religious freedom. Why is freedom allowed one place but chastised elsewhere? Why are we not consistent?

Friends, this is messy. Religious freedom is messy. This can also be understandably, highly-emotionally charged. But we have to figure it out — and not just support or oppose it when it fits with the issues about which we are individually most passionate.

In my semi-humble opinion, the issue that arose in that Kentucky county last week was not about religious freedom. It was also not about Kim Davis; she was just the easiest target to attack. The issue that arose was the selective adherence to the law of the land.
 Is it ok to be selectively adherent?

… what about persons who justify breaking other laws? … what about those who broke Prop 8 when it was law in California? … what about those who continue to support illegal rioting and destruction?

In other words, do we get to decide what laws to adhere to?

Are we thus ever inconsistent or (God-forbid) hypocritical in our adherence?

Like I said, this is not about Kim Davis. It’s about following the law of the land… which each of us is sometimes good at… and sometimes not.

Respectfully…
AR

perceptions

photo-1438503733096-e5c5560f05edAs most of you know, we have been wrestling with some tough issues here. Thank you. I have always said there is no topic the Intramuralist will intentionally avoid. Some topics are tougher than others to discuss — some will have far less consensus and prompt many more angles and tangents and potentially messy opinions — but we won’t shy away. As long as we are respectful — as long as we are willing to articulate thought and opinion in way that is sensitive to those who may not agree — we can talk about all things. I believe learning to talk about all things is key to making progress and crafting solution.

One of my greatest gripes about Washington (and wherever), in fact, is that we make so little progress together; we are not unified. Why? Because instead of learning to humbly listen and speak respectfully — in a way that makes us actually want to work together — we simply justify shouting louder. Note to all: that never works.

Hence, returning briefly to Tuesday’s topic surrounding the #BlackLivesMatter movement, I found the ensuing discussion incredibly insightful and thought-provoking… that is… for those who were willing to soberly listen and consider all that was said.

Later that day I engaged in another conversation regarding a transgender teen, at the heart of a controversy in Missouri. The teen desires to use the high school girls’ bathroom even though he is physiologically still male. Again, this is a tough topic to be sensitive to all people and perspectives. It’s often tough to have empathy for people who think different than “we” or “me.”

So as I wrestled with what is good and true and right, I began to think about the whole idea of “lives mattering” — a beautiful concept, no doubt, as we are each uniquely and wonderfully made.

Is our challenge that in all of our life mattering issues, there exists at least a perception (not necessarily a reality) that one life is more valuable than another?

Hear me here; there is zero harshness in my voice. I am attempting to process this together…

At the heart of the #BlackLivesMatter movement, is there a general perception in those genuinely advocating, that the lives of white people mean more — hence the motivation for the movement?

Regarding the accompanying mantra that cops’ lives matter — is there a perception that cops’ lives don’t matter as much as the grass roots’ movement?

Let’s extend this further…

In regard to the disabled — an issue near and dear to my heart — is there a perception that the life of a special needs individual is less valued and/or capable of contributing to our society?

And to the elderly, because they are old, are they perceived to have any less to give?

What about the delicate issue dealing with the unborn — is there a perception that the baby’s life is less valuable than the mother’s?

Or regarding that mother — is there a perception that her life matters less?

Friends, I am not attempting to set off any fresh, new hot button. I desire to wrestle with all that is good and true and right. And as I hear you and your many diverse, excellent insights, I wonder if there are multiple perceptions surrounding the quality of life that some of us — perhaps none of us — totally get. I appreciated, for example, the comment of a friend who respectfully offered that in regard to #BlackLivesMatter, there are some aspects white people simply don’t comprehend; just as when we consider the increasing violence against police, there are some aspects that those so emotionally entwined in the Black Lives movement also miss.

I wonder: is there some separate aspect of empathy each of us is missing when it comes to black lives, cops, the disabled, elderly, unborn, transgender, etc. etc. etc.?

What are we missing? What perceptions may be slightly skewed?

And can we… can we talk about it?

Respectfully…
AR

facebook arguments

wi9yf7kTQxCNeY72cCY6_Images of Jenny Lace Plasticity Publish (4 of 25)I saw this quote posted by a friend today on Facebook : “You don’t have to attend every argument you are invited to.”

The funny thing about that is it’s the third time this week I have seen that exact same quote. The first was on a bumper sticker, the second on a coffee mug in a gift store. It has me thinking that the Universe is trying to tell me something. I don’t think of myself as argumentative or combative. In fact most people who really know me would say that I do my best to avoid confrontation. So why me, Universe? Why now?

Why not, say eight or nine years ago? Back when social media was a pretty new thing for people of my generation and there was a presidential election in full swing. At the time it seemed like finally those of us who loathed confrontation had found the answer to getting our point across-just post it. I could say whatever I wanted because I wasn’t actually arguing face to face with anyone. Which also meant I didn’t have to accept ANY opposing opinions about anything! If I didn’t like what they had to say in response to my post I could just ignore it, or delete it or let someone who agreed with me go after them in the comments; it was a beautiful thing. Until it wasn’t any more… turns out Facebook confrontation are the same thing as real confrontations — go figure?

Those arguments I was typing with the distant relatives of my best friend from nursery school? Turns out they were actual people and not just dialog boxes, and the “discussions” we were having were being read and judged by all of our friends. And you know what else? The only opinions any of that critical closed-minded dialog changed were of me and the others who participated in it. No one suddenly changed their entire belief system based on a Facebook argument. Shocker right?

I know this because my small hometown has a Festival every summer. It’s the one time of year you can be guaranteed to run into old classmates and long ago friends. Every one comes back and what used to be three days of catching up has morphed into three days of talking about what you have posted on Facebook recently. And let me tell you, it isn’t nearly as much fun to apologize to someone for arguing with their Mom about immigration as it is to remember the time we hit a pig on the highway after the homecoming dance.

So without even knowing it, I learned that I didn’t have to attend every argument I was invited to. I stopped posting political pieces. Stopped commenting for the sake of starting up a fight. I weighed in here and there but I chose my words carefully and bracketed it with things like “respectfully” and “we don’t all have to agree”. I became mindful that, for most of my Facebook friends, what I posted was the only definition they would have of me. I don’t speak to many of them face to face. They don’t know how I live my life, that there is more to me than my posts and replies. And I didn’t want that to be their truth about me. I am more than just my political beliefs or my religion or my alma mater (though that one I still have a hard time not defending). I am a sum of all of those things and more.

And now another Presidential election is upon us. I know this because I live in Iowa and here things start getting revved up pretty early. We already have commercials and candidate forums. Editorials are being printed in our newspapers and opinions, lots and lots of opinions. And slowly but surely, those one sided political posts are starting to make their way into my newsfeed. I shudder to think how this one will go. After all, we’ve had years to sharpen our blades and our social media skills. How many of us will let our passion trump our reason? How many of us will lose friendships over words we type on our keyboards? Think about that before you hit post. Maybe you think it doesn’t matter, that if someone disagrees with your opinion you are better off without their friendship. But what about their respect? When did we become a country where people either agree with you or they are wrong? Maybe it was around the time we all started posting our opinions instead of talking about them in person.

Respectfully…
Jules

Indiana’s RFRA and the Culture War

photo-1438368915865-a852ef86fc42For one week, from March 26, 2015 until April 2, 2015, Indiana found itself a battlefield in the nationwide culture war. Below is my perspective on the “Battle of the Indiana RFRA” from my vantage point on the front lines.

The origin of the Religious Freedom Restoration Act dates back 25 years to a 1990 U.S. Supreme Court decision, Employment Division vs. Smith. Two Native Americans in Oregon were fired from their jobs and denied unemployment compensation because they used the illegal drug peyote as a part of a religious ceremony. The employees tried to use the First Amendment’s free exercise of religion clause as a defense. SCOTUS ruled against them, declaring it was not necessary for the state’s drug laws to make an exception for acts done in pursuit of religious beliefs.

Congress was not a fan of this decision. In reaction, they passed the original RFRA in 1993. The law (42 USC 21B) states that the government shall not substantially burden a person’s exercise of religion unless the burden is in furtherance of a compelling governmental interest and the burden is the least restrictive means of furthering that interest. The law was introduced by then Rep. Chuck Schumer in the House, carried by Sen. Edward Kennedy in the Senate, passed nearly unanimously, and signed by President Bill Clinton.

In 1997, SCOTUS ruled in City of Boerne v. Flores that RFRA only applied to federal law and not state and local laws. As a result, twenty states passed their own version of RFRA, including Illinois, which passed RFRA in 1998 with the support of then State Senator Barack Obama. (Some have excused this vote by pointing out that Illinois also has an LGBT anti-discrimination law. They neglect to mention that the anti-discrimination legislation wasn’t passed until 2005.)

So what changed? Why would language that Democrats lauded only a generation ago now be vilified by those same individuals as bigoted? Obviously it’s because of a cultural shift in attitudes toward same-sex relationships. Traditional marriage advocates in Indiana tried to push back against this shift with the initial passage of a state constitutional amendment defining marriage as the union of one man and one woman, as was already defined in Indiana statute, in February 2014. Full adoption would have required a second passage by subsequent legislature and approval by a voter referendum.

It didn’t take long for that to become a moot exercise. The following month, three lesbian couples from Indiana filed a lawsuit, Baskin v. Bogan, in federal court for the ability to marry. In June, the district court ruled for the plaintiffs, finding their rights to due process and equal protection of law under the 14th Amendment to the U.S. Constitution were being violated. In September, the circuit appeals court upheld the decision, and then in October, the U.S. Supreme Court let stand those rulings. Just like that, Indiana’s law was overturned and Hoosier gay couples could marry.

Which brings us to 2015. Now that same-sex marriage was legal in Indiana, attention turned to protecting those who did not believe in gay unions. Some legislators were concerned about events that had taken place in other states regarding the issue. In Houston, the mayor had subpoenaed sermons that area pastors had given regarding homosexuality. An Oregon bakery was ordered to pay $135,000 to a lesbian couple for refusing to make them a wedding cake. A florist in Washington was directed by a judge to provide flowers for gay wedding ceremonies.

The mechanism chosen to prevent such incidents from happening here was RFRA, which was top of mind after another SCOTUS case in 2014, Burwell v. Hobby Lobby, where the court decided that because of the federal RFRA, a privately held company could not be forced by the government to include coverage for abortion-inducing contraceptive drugs as a part of the health insurance provided to its employees.

When the bill was debated in Indiana, the discussion did not center on homosexuality. Examples that were cited in which the law would apply included a Muslim prisoner in Arkansas who was allowed to grow a beard contrary to Department of Correction policy and the Amish buggy drivers in Kentucky who resisted laws requiring them to place an orange triangle on the back of their vehicles and won the right to use reflective tape instead. The focus was on restricting Indiana state and local governments from infringing on the religious beliefs of individuals or businesses.

But what about disputes between two individuals or businesses? Different federal circuit courts, as well as courts in the other states who had already adopted RFRA laws, had come to different conclusions as to whether RFRA would apply to civil lawsuits. To avoid confusion, legislators amended the bill to clarify that RFRA could be asserted as a defense in a civil case, regardless of whether the state or a local government was part of the lawsuit.

I should emphasize that RFRA has never provided blanket immunity to those sued for discrimination. It simply allows for the defendant to raise religious objections as a defense. It would still be up to a judge to decide, according to the facts of the case, whether those religious objections are overridden by a compelling state interest in the least restrictive means possible.

This lack of clarity on the scope of RFRA’s applicability in discrimination cases was the source of its controversy. The bill’s proponents were motivated by a very narrow instance of a defendant (e.g., minister, florist, baker, photographer, etc.) asked to participate in a religious sacrament. Opponents of the bill feared a much broader application, such as companies refusing to hire gay workers, restaurants turning away gay customers, or landlords rejecting gay tenants.

Let me reiterate that prior to the bill’s passage, there was no outrage expressed about wider discrimination against gays and lesbians. It was not until after the bill became law the organized attacks began. To clarify, I do not doubt the sincerity of gays who were afraid they could be kicked out of a restaurant because of RFRA. Yet, I do believe that activists fostered these fears for political ends. These activists also used Saul Alinsky-type tactics to intimidate legislators. For instance, customers of the family business owned by one of the bill’s authors were threatened with boycotts if they did not sever ties his company.

After the bill was signed, Governor Mike Pence appeared on This Week with George Stephanopoulos. Stephanopoulos repeatedly asked the governor whether Indiana’s RFRA legalized discrimination against gays. When the governor declined to answer the question, it appeared that he was confirming opponents’ concerns that the law sanctioned broader discrimination. What he should have done is acknowledged that under very restricted circumstances, such as when a wedding service provider had religious objections to participate in a gay wedding, he hoped that a judge would not compel the business or person to do so.

Of course, all of that is Monday morning quarterbacking. In retrospect, there may have been nothing Governor Pence could have done to halt the avalanche of negative attention on Indiana. A false narrative had taken hold, “Indiana RFRA legalizes discrimination,” and with the help of social media, that false narrative had gone viral. It was frustrating that the perception of what the law did was the news story, not what the law actually did. Like it or not, perception had become reality.

Another thing which became very real was the adverse economic impact the controversy had on the state, and Indianapolis in particular, which is heavily dependent upon visitors to the area. Within only a few days, a billion dollars’ worth of convention business was cancelled and more losses were threatened. Furthermore, the lost economic activity meant less revenue available for schools, roads, public safety, and the like.

And so, a follow-up bill was crafted to limit RFRA’s applicability in discrimination cases. Only a church or religious organization and its minister/priest/rabbi could use it as a defense. That is not where I would have drawn the line, but there was no opportunity to change it. I did not relish voting for a bill negotiated with corporate leaders behind closed doors, but given that there was an economic gun pointed at Indiana’s head, there was little choice.

After SCOTUS’s Obergefell v. Hodges decision a few months later, same-sex marriage is now the law in all fifty states. Just as Roe v. Wade did not end the acrimony over abortion, we will be arguing over gay marriage for quite some time. As Indiana’s experience shows, the right to marry is not enough for some gay rights advocates. They want the government to force all service providers to participate in a gay wedding, despite the plethora of businesses willing to do so. (See last week’s ruling against a Colorado baker.)

What we should do instead is develop a “live and let live” legal framework. If a gay person owned a print shop and a prospective customer ordered 100 signs that said “Homosexuality is a sin,” should the owner be within his rights to refuse the business? Of course, he should. Why should the Christian wedding service provider not have the same right?

How we answer that question is the next battle in the culture war.

Respectfully…

Pete

speaking at my funeral

stick-and-stonesDo you ever wonder what people will say about you at your funeral? No, I am not talking about the “she looks good”, or the “they did an amazing job” comments. I am talking about the real heartfelt comments that will come from your family or your friends — and hopefully not anytime soon. Have you done enough “good” in your life so that those chosen to speak will leave a lasting impression on those in attendance?

I watched the funeral of Officer Sonny Kim in Cincinnati last July and listened to the speakers and what they each had to say about him. How difficult it must have been for each of them to prepare their remarks because his death was so sudden, so senseless, and so tragic. Yet, Officer Kim created quite a legacy and left plenty of content simply by the way he lived his life.

If you, like me, didn’t have the good fortune to know Officer Kim in life, take the opportunity to know him in death. We can learn from his example and try to leave this community and city better than when we arrived. Make something positive happen from this tragedy.

No doubt, Officer Kim was an amazing husband, father, son, brother, mentor, teacher, and police officer. No doubt, Officer Kim touched and positively influenced many lives. No doubt, Officer Kim lived each day to the fullest. And no doubt, Officer Kim died a true hero.

In death, Officer Kim almost seems larger than life, a super hero, an immortal. In theory, it is fine for us to remember him in this way. We should. He deserves it. But in reality, he didn’t possess any super powers any more than you or I do. He loved. He cared. He displayed a genuine kindness to his fellow man. He was special. He made a difference. And he will be remembered.

Officer Kim didn’t make a conscious effort to make this world better; he did it by simply living his life. He didn’t care what race you were or what religion you practiced or how much money you had; he simply loved and cared about everyone collectively. Those that knew him, loved him. And those that didn’t know him, have come to love him in the days following his death. This has been very evident in the endless tributes and donations that have come flooding in.

If Officer Kim were here today, I would imagine that he would shy away from all of this attention. I say this only because his beautiful wife, Jessica, was quoted as saying, “you are doing too much” in response to all of the love and support shown to them in the days following his death. No, Mrs. Kim, we can never do enough to thank you and your family for sharing your Sonny with us — not only in life but in his death, as well.

He united us on a sunny, then, briefly stormy Friday afternoon in June. We were all Cincinnatians, Ohioans, and most of all Americans. We were supporters of the hundreds of law enforcement members who were a part of his funeral procession. We lined 17 miles of the city’s Montgomery Road with our American Flags, wearing our blue. It didn’t matter race or religion. It didn’t matter young or old. It didn’t matter rich or poor. We were there to honor Officer Kim and his family. We were one.

So, I ask you…what are you doing to make a difference? Do you go the extra mile? Do you take the time to enjoy the little things and/or little ones in your life? Do you go out of your way to do something nice for someone? Are you kind? Are you compassionate? Do you love? Do you care? Do you live — and I mean really live?

We all would like to think we would answer yes to all of the questions. I believe we would all choose good over bad at any point. But, if you are like me, we are constantly running by the seat of our pants. We have games and concerts and work and household matters. We have family obligations and school meetings and dinner to cook. It is hard to manage our time these days.

I challenge you to start small and do one thing each day to make this world a better place. Maybe just smile at someone, lend a hand, send a card, offer a hug, or take the time to tell someone how much they mean to you. It doesn’t have to be monumental, the smallest showings sometimes are the most memorable.

So, think again about who you would want to speak at your funeral. What do you want them to say? Reflect on this often. Start creating your content today. Be kind, be gracious, love all, care, forgive and forget, don’t judge, and laugh. Above all, go make a difference today.

Kindly…
LS

coming soon…

LJIZlzHgQ7WPSh5KVTCB_Typewriter-1For the past seven years, we have covered multiple incidents, issues, and current events. Some posts have been more personal and passionate; whereas, others have been more factual and informative. We have covered much. For a very brief example, since November of 2008, we have covered:

The events… the election of Barack Obama, subsequent elections, the earthquakes in Haiti and Japan, the tsunamis and tornados, the ongoing conflict with militant Muslims, the worsening economic crisis in Europe, the atrocities — here, there — way too many… we even covered Queen Elizabeth’s Diamond Jubilee.

The issues… healthcare, heroes, caring for the least of these, education, the economy, increasing debt, marriage, gay marriage, God, guns, bailouts, idol worship, 80’s music, vacation, vaccines, false religion, racism, and all the wild, manipulative rhetoric.

The ideals… humility, arrogance, patience, kindness, self-control, freedom, sacrifice, acceptance, tolerance, selflessness, greed, gluttony, and love (…because the greatest of these will always be love).

The people… Joe Biden, Jack Kemp, Rod Blagojevich, Tom Brady, Condoleezza Rice, Tim Tebow, Mark Twain, and Prince George. We covered Habitat’s Millard Fuller, (way too many) Bush’s and Clinton’s, the singularly-named Seinfeld, Oprah, and Beyoncé… and never forgetting lessons learned via those three, cute, teenage boys in my own household.

The sports… Baseball, fantasy football, golf, March Madness, the Packers and Patriots, Lions, Tigers, and Bears, FIFA, and especially, this summer’s awesome, women’s World Cup team.

Yes, we have covered much.

Let it always be said of the Intramuralist that we care more about articulation than agreement. It is not important that we always agree. We can’t. Throughout my life, for instance, many have insisted that I must like mushrooms and pickles… “What’s wrong with you?!” I’m sorry. I don’t like them. I won’t. And I don’t plan on changing my opinion any time soon. It’s ok that we disagree. 🙂

What’s not ok is our inability to have the conversation. There are far too many on Facebook and elsewhere who find no discomfort calling a brother or sister an “idiot” or “douchebag.” Excuse my language; I’m making a point. The insults and indignities say more about the person who employs them than the person they are attempting to target.

Consistent with that value, let it also be said then that while I so appreciate this blog and means of communication, I don’t think it’s always important that you hear from me. I want you to hear from one another. I want you to hear from someone other than me — and other than self.

Beginning Sunday, therefore, is our annual summer Guest Writer Series. Over the next three and a half weeks, you will hear from other people. You will hear from a parent, nursing professional, a police chaplain, and a communications expert; you will hear from three known published authors and a philanthropic CEO; you will also hear from an insightful, new friend made on the spring “grad party circuit” — and even from a sitting State Senator. You will hear angles and articulations different from mine.

Please know that the opinions expressed here may or may not be consistent with mine. I may totally disagree, but that doesn’t matter. What matters is that we learn to express ourselves in ways respectful to one another so that we can discuss, learn, and sometimes, hopefully even solve.

I will add that this year’s group of writers is a talented, expressive group. They will address some challenging subjects — beginning Sunday — but they communicate consistently with respect.

Hence, feel free to comment. Share with our guest writers where you agree or disagree; share with them why. Talk to them here or on Facebook or Twitter. Join the conversation. Let our writers know what you appreciate. Ask questions. Ask for more insight. And as always, do so respectfully. Let’s articulate ourselves wisely and well.

Respectfully… (I can’t wait…)
AR

belief

photo-1415226355641-7f90f89def6aAnyone who is President or runs for President tends to do three things:

  1. Kiss babies.
  2. Claim to know Econ. And…
  3. Talk about God.

As the 16th entry into the diverse 2016 GOP presidential field, Ohio Gov. John Kasich concluded his announcement on Tuesday with the following:

“As for me, I’m just a flawed man, a flawed man, trying to honor God’s blessings in my life. I don’t even understand it. He’s been very good to me. And I want you to know that I will do my very best to serve you, because you are in my mind’s eye… God bless you and God bless America.”

Ah, yes, to appeal to the masses, we like to invoke the name of God; it sounds good. But when is such a reflection of what we really believe — and when is it merely a strategic manifestation of — shall we say — lip-service?

Even in our seemingly all-things-go society, non-belief is still politically unpopular. I speak not of atheism or agnosticism — those who claim God doesn’t exist or simply say they do not know him. According to the Barna Group, 75% of us believe in God; 92% say Jesus Christ was a real person who actually lived; and 62% of us have made a commitment to Jesus that we say is still important to us today.

But my sense is that belief means something more. Belief cannot be qualified as lip service. Belief changes us. And belief radically changes how we behave.

Belief in an omniscient, omnipotent, amazing grace-giving, compassionate God means we learn to love our brother and sister well. It means to look out especially for the poor, sick, elderly, and orphan. It means that all lives matter.

Belief in this great big God of the universe means we trust more in him than in ourselves. That means I allow my prayer and my pause to direct my heart, mind, soul, and strength. That means I am submissive to someone other than myself.

Belief in God means that I recognize that I don’t have life all figured out… that I don’t know all there is; and I can’t. My experience doesn’t equate itself with exhaustive truth. I recognize there must be someone greater and wiser than me.

Time and time again, I find myself struck by those who share their belief in God, but then seemingly, in the same breath, turn around to chastise another… to only love one person or people group well… or to arrogantly proclaim only they or their tight knit people group has been solely, divinely enlightened. So many times I have been struck by the lack of humility claimed by those who say they believe.

Allow me one more notably, transparent sentence: so many times I have been struck by my own lack of humility.

To say we believe means we are changed. It means our trust comes from God, our empowerment comes from God, and thus our peace and confidence comes from him. That person will be like a tree planted by the water, that sends out its roots, but doesn’t fear when the tough weather comes. The worry is less. The need to control is less. The need to only love some people is less. The need to trump one people group over another is less. The need to proclaim one’s own enlightenment is less. The need for arrogance is less. God is more; we are essentially… “less.”

Make no mistake about it; believing isn’t always easy. It takes faith. It is peace giving and confidence building, but it takes investment on our parts. It takes time. It takes pause.

So many proclaim their belief, but we should also be able to see their belief in how they behave.

It’s too easy to simply kiss all the babies.

Respectfully…
AR

let’s make a deal

photo-1431051047106-f1e17d81042fLet’s see if this makes any sense. From Twitter on Tuesday, in the immediate hours after the U.S. and Iran agreed to some sort of deal supposedly limiting Iran’s nuclear development program — thus, these are immediate, non-poll-tested, non-filtered reactions:

Stephen Hayes @stephenfhayes  The #IranDeal finalizes US shift from preventing an Iranian nuclear weapons to managing the process by which Iran goes nuclear.

Hassan Rouhani @HassanRouhani  Upon #IranDeal implementation all sanctions will be lifted — not suspended. Otherwise,there was no need for 18-day round-the-clock #IranTalks

el Sooper ن @SooperMexican  Obama says sanction relief staggered, conditional: @HassanRouhani says immediately OFF

Jake Sherman @JakeSherman  Boehner doesn’t seem like he’s a fan of this Iran deal. Says “this deal is likely to fuel a nuclear arms race around the world.”

Bill Kristol @BillKristol  “This deal cannot stand.”
Special @weeklystandard editorial: A Very Good Deal—for Iran.

Dan Merica @danmericaCNN  Hillary Clinton was just asked about the Iran deal as she entered the Capitol today. “Good morning, good morning,” she said in response.

David Chalian @DavidChalian  President Obama welcomes robust congressional debate on #IranDeal and issues veto threat within 90 seconds of each other.

Philip Klein @philipaklein Obama says 2/3 of centrifuges will be eliminated. So, that means ~ 6k will remain. WH original claimed it would be limited to 500-1500 tops.

Seung Min Kim @seungminkim  Rubio weighs in on Iran: “Based on what we know thus far, I believe that this deal undermines our national security.”

Omri Ceren @cerenomri  “Where necessary / when necessary” = a far cry from “anytime/anywhere.” Congress is going to want to know why they were lied to.

Michael Wilner @mawilner  Senior administration official tells me: “We don’t think that anytime, anywhere inspections are feasible.”

Stephen Hayes @stephenfhayes  Bottom line: With the #IranDeal, the Obama administration is giving vast power & money to the world’s leading state sponsor of terror.

Other immediate comments…

From Pres. Obama: “Today after two years of negotiation the United States, together with the international community, has achieved something that decades of animosity has not: a comprehensive long-term deal with Iran that will prevent it from obtaining a nuclear weapon.”

And yet Sen. Tom Cotton calls it a “terrible, dangerous mistake which will pave Iran’s path to a nuclear weapon.”

Former Clinton administration State Dept. official, Jamie Rubin, called claims that the deal will lead to better Iran behavior “nonsense.”

Israeli PM Benjamin Netanyahu said it’s “a bad mistake of historic proportions.”

Gov. Scott Walker identified it as “one of the biggest disasters of the Obama-Clinton Doctrine.”

And MSNBC immediately reported that there is a “very angry reaction” in Israel over this deal.

These were just the immediate, initial reactions.

Easy to know what’s good and true and right? Is the truth clear? Make any sense?

Nope… not to me either.

Respectfully…
AR

belief vs. behavior

QoR8Bv1S2SEqH6UcSJCA_TeaAs duly noted, the Intramuralist has a long stated obsession with the question mark. It’s the only piece of punctuation, friends, that requires a response. The exclamation point is for the shouters — who listen to few others — and the semi-colon, creative as it may be, is for those who tend to ramble and keep on talking; they keep talking; and they keep talking.

Let me be clear: it doesn’t have to be me that asks the question. I stumble upon great, thought-provoking questions daily. For example (with the help of CNN, the International Business Times, National Geographic, and Yahoo News), this week the following questions each gave me pause:

“What’s a ‘sanctuary city,’ and why should you care?”
“Does Greece prove Margaret Thatcher correct that ‘the problem with socialism is that eventually you run out of other people’s money?’ “
“How good is Serena Williams?”
“Now will you believe Bill Cosby’s accusers?”

And (one of my favorites)…

“Did you see that on ‘Shark Week’?”

One question, though, stood out far more than any of the above. Is was a simple question asked by a respected friend. It was a question that combined how we behave with what we believe. I must also acknowledge: it was beautifully profound.

Does your morality dictate your theology — or — your theology dictate your morality?

In other words… do we base how we behave upon what we believe? Or… do we change what we believe because of how we behave?

Do we change what we believe because of how others behave? Or… how people we love behave? Do we change what we believe? Is that wise?

Perhaps no example of such moral relativism stands more poignant in history than England’s King Henry VIII, who ruled from 1509 to 1547. Note that in English tradition — as actually established by Henry VIII — the British monarch also holds the title of Supreme Governor of the Church of England.

While further study of this topic is both deserving and insightful, history shows that Henry VIII had multiple disputes with the Roman Catholic Church and papal authority. Hence, during his reign, he separated from Rome, establishing the Church of England as the official, state-endorsed religion, and he then inserted himself as the church’s head — the perceived moral leader of England.

One of the key, revealing areas of conflict for the King was the Roman church’s teaching on the sanctity of marriage — a problem because Henry VIII no longer wanted to be married to his wife. In fact, there were many wives Henry wished to no longer be married to. After separating from Rome, and thus any strict adherence to the Catholic church, Henry VIII was married six times — four of which ended with the divorce, annulment, or even the beheading of his spouse. He was rumored to have multiple affairs… obviously completely contradicting any sense of sanctity of the marital union and commitment.
King Henry VIII led a nation. He is described in “The Tudor Monarchy,” a historical account depicting the power and politics in England’s history, as “one of the most charismatic rulers to sit on the English throne,” a powerful, attractive, and accomplished king. 

I wonder how he would have answered the question: did his morality dictate his theology — or — his theology dictate his morality?

What do we do? What do we change because of how we wish to behave?

As always, great question.

Respectfully…
AR

yearning for connection

photo-1428865798880-73444f4cbefcConsistent with my daily routine of scanning diverse news sources, yesterday I read an editorial in The Washington Post debating the possibility of VP Joe Biden running for President of the United States. Yes, I find it fascinating…14,000 people running for the Rep’s… one waiting to be coronated by the Dem’s… and neither scenario currently, totally appealing.

But as the editorial weighed the prospects of a Biden candidacy, I stumbled upon this huge a-ha:

“In a lot of ways, Biden would be the true anti-Hillary. He is completely uninhibited, he is impossible to script — which makes him seem authentic — and he has a human appeal that everyone can relate to. Clinton, on the other hand, is running a surreal campaign that avoids crowds, media and spontaneity of any kind. She is protecting her lead in the most standard, unimaginative way possible. Compared with Clinton’s robotic, stiff approach, could having a reputation for occasionally saying the wrong thing and hugging too much work to Biden’s advantage in an era where voters want the real thing?

The Democrats appear to be yearning for an emotional connection with their candidate, which could explain the flurry of excitement surrounding the Bernie Sanders campaign. Sen. Sanders seems to have an outsize appeal, which could be a product of how his outside-the-box approach contrasts with the stale Clinton march. But whatever Bernie can do, can’t Biden do it better? Maybe Sanders’s candidacy has exposed the opening that exists for Biden in the Democratic primary. Maybe this is Biden’s moment.”

Friends, this post is not intended to address any aspect of partisan politics — nor to again aver the Intramuralist’s stated desire for ideas fresher than those hailing from a Clinton or Bush. What fascinated me in the above editorial was this line:

“The Democrats appear to be yearning for an emotional connection with their candidate.”

Let’s remove the partisan reference…

We want an emotional connection with our candidate.

We want an emotional connection with our President.

We want an emotional connection with our celebrities, sports figures, politicians, you-name-it.

My sense is we crave connection.

Years ago I remember laughing when ABC found unique success positioning their “Bachelor/Bachelorette” series as “reality TV” [insert big grin here]. I laughed further still at the vocabulary they added to our colloquial conversation.

..

  • “I still feel great about Courtney because when I’m with her, I feel really connected to her.”
  • “Thanks to everyone for hanging in there with me this season. We totally had a connection.”
  • “I truly thought we had a connection, but I never seem to be anyone’s number one.”

Connection… connection… connection. We crave emotional connection.

It’s why many appreciated Pres. Obama singing “Amazing Grace” last weekend in Charleston; many connected with him emotionally. It’s also why many have not appreciated his leadership on healthcare; he has not cared about emotionally connecting with the majority of people.
It’s why the people of Cleveland root for LeBron James — because of the emotional bond they share, as he admirably returned to the city they love. It’s the same we feel with women’s soccer and this year’s national team — connecting with them — and their patriotism, as they represent us all.
A Joe Biden candidacy? The Intramuralist isn’t here to weigh the merits of any one candidate’s qualifications; we make no endorsements. But I will say this… as a man who often puts his foot in his mouth, a man who seemingly knows how to laugh at himself, a man who has made some major mistakes, and a man who knows deep, deep, recent sorrow — on a totally, nonpartisan level, I feel like we connect.

To me, that’s important… in reality… and not reality TV.

Respectfully…
AR