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IMG_1457So as I sat in silence, prepared to pen today’s post, I ran through my mental list of what’s most important and what I desire to discuss today.

I contemplated writing about health care…

Sorry.  I know this is an issue to which the Intramuralist frequently refers; my sense is simply that it’s a glaring example of partisan politics, in which transparency is scarce, economics and ethics are compromised, and neither advocates nor opposition are respectful of contrary opinion.  Today is supposed to be the first day in which annual enrollment is complete, and mandates and fines are imposed.  Talking with several of you across the country, I also hear your irritation in regard to how this has been implemented and executed.  We could discuss this today, but my perception is that it isn’t what’s most important.

We could speak of Russia’s armed aggression…

Two weeks ago, they voted to annex the Crimea region of Ukraine after the people in the area supported a public referendum.  (I wonder…  if Minnesotans voted to be part of Canada, would we so easily support letting them go?  But lest I digress…)   I cautiously watch Russian Pres. Putin as he strongly and swiftly alters the Ukrainian border.  I watch, too, how his military amassing seems unthwarted and his ambition unmoved no matter the words of Western leaders.  And then I see Pres. Obama on ESPN.

I contemplated writing about Obama on ESPN…

I have mixed emotions on this, friends.  The Intramuralist is no fan of being a critic for critical sakes.  I expect our nations’ leaders to have interests outside of foreign policy.  But there’s something about Pres. Obama’s frequent flirtation with pop culture that makes me uncomfortable.

On ESPN, the President did his annual analysis of his NCAA college basketball picks.  We all do that.  (Ok, most… sorry, Mom…)  But the point is that the kind of analysis the President presented takes significant time.  It takes focus.  It takes energy and concentration to know that the Spartans of Michigan State were in position to make a long run in the tourney, due to their preseason ranking, early season injuries, and late season prowess.  That takes time — more than the 2 hours interviewed by the original Entertainment and Sports Programming Network.  Beyond a shadow of a doubt, I want the leaders of our country, regardless of party, to spend their time on what’s most important.  Right now, our foreign policy and relations are vital.  Pop culture is not.  Is it right?  Is it wrong?  I can’t definitively answer those questions.  I simply suggest it makes me uncomfortable.

 

And so as I was seeking to focus today’s blog on what is most important, I had to chuckle.  Down at the bottom of my page, as I prepared to type, was the following:

“josh is a awsome son”

So my 12 year old, special, special needs son doesn’t consistently hit the “shift” key.  His spelling isn’t always correct, and sometimes he talks differently that you and me.  There are a lot of things he can’t do.  But what am I focused on?  On what he can’t do — or what he can?  Only one of those responses prompts gratitude in me this day.   So I stopped writing, went to his room, and teased Josh about his semi-humble, self-assessment.  He immediately matched my chuckle with his own contagious glee, and then joyfully said, “Mom, I want you to write about me today.”

Once again, when I look at life through eyes other than my own, I see what’s most important.

 

Respectfully,

AR